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23 Jan 2010, 1:37 pm

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That's probably true. I've always wondered if some women were really and truly afraid of a dead mouse or whether they were going for the squeal effect. I'm not a completely capable woman though and I often need help with the computer. Maybe I should stand by my computer and squeal and wave my hands around.

most that would elicit from me is a facepalm or two, and perhaps me just wandering off somewhere else.

lol, well if it's a live mouse or spider...believe me, they are afraid. the screaming is simply stimming i guess....XD

LOL, for some reason I've never been afraid of picking up mice.

My brother has always acted like the type of guy who isn't afraid of anything. One time I found a mouse trapped in the corner by my cat. I decided to grab it by the tail and show it to my brother. He started screaming like a girl with his hands flapping...it was so funny.. :lol:

Needless to say, I was so proud of that mouse that I kept him as a pet and named him Squeak after my brother's episode.

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23 Jan 2010, 4:44 pm

MissConstrue wrote:

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most that would elicit from me is a facepalm or two, and perhaps me just wandering off somewhere else.

lol, well if it's a live mouse or spider...believe me, they are afraid. the screaming is simply stimming i guess....XD

Needless to say, I was so proud of that mouse that I kept him as a pet and named him Squeak after my brother's episode.

well, i'm not afraid of mice either. XD
lol! that's hilarious, though.

did squeak ever get tame?

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23 Jan 2010, 9:56 pm

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The part that I find ironic is that, despite all their complaining and professing to not understand women, men actually want a feminine girl.

This is true for a lot of men, not all of them--and also depends on what kind of relationship the guy is looking for or even what mood he is in at the time.

For just sex, both feminine and masculine-type women have their definite advantages, and similarly for FWB arrangements. In terms of who I'm likely to have a crush on or want a relationship with (even a short-term one), I tend to go for more feminine women. There is a certain inviting mystery to a girl who likes dolls and cute things, really enjoys other people, etc. Especially since I love machines and technical things so much, I feel drawn to someone who can counterbalance that.

But for me, the kind of things that are "invitingly" feminine mostly have to do with interests and general mannerisms. I certainly wouldn't (for any kind of relationship) mind a woman who actively pursues me, and could definitely do without the low sex drive and the vulnerability complex.

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23 Jan 2010, 10:06 pm

So you're a tomboy?

And if you dont want to flirt, why would you want to learn it?

Your location is Istanbul and your 17, i would take it that you're turkish.
If thats the case i'm pretty sure some guy will eventualy come asking your parents if he can try date you or something.
If you dont like him and his looks or whatever simply say no?
So no worries.

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24 Jan 2010, 8:50 am

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I'm personally very much attracted to the "tomboy" type of woman. In fact, I would say the perfect woman has the body of the slender woman and the mind of a genius man

do you not like women?

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He wants a man with a vagina. A mangina if you will.

Just a male brain in a female body.....

I do tend to be attracted to more feminine women but I rarely (if ever) get along with them at all. I feel far comfortable among the more manly women and it's really not a coincidence that my best friends are a lesbian couple.

I'm only speaking about personality and behavior, by the way. Physically I go for femininity all the way.

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24 Jan 2010, 9:39 am

Salonfilosoof wrote:

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I'm personally very much attracted to the "tomboy" type of woman. In fact, I would say the perfect woman has the body of the slender woman and the mind of a genius man

do you not like women?

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He wants a man with a vagina. A mangina if you will.

It seems like you're talking about women being either girly-girl or manly. I think most are neither extreme. I wear make up and earrings and dresses (in the summer) but I'll never be a hair tosser.

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24 Jan 2010, 9:46 am

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i dont know how to flirt...i dont want to flirt. i slouch when i sit. i think burping contests are fun. dressing in baggy comfort clothes is better than dressing to look hot. i snort when i laugh....the list goes on.

i mean, im not disgusting or anything. i smell nice, and dont have halitosis...i say some weird sh**, or too much info, but im never offensive really....
i guess guys must never approach me because i'm not feminine enough? is it every guy who is put off by chicks who act like "one of the guys"? it makes me feel bad. i think i'm coming to realise i simply dont act girly enough.

You like to work on cars? I find that an attractive quality in a girl... infact, I like the girls who act like one of the guys...

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24 Jan 2010, 9:59 am

i dont really know how to work on cars. i love them though.

i'm more american than turkish. no way im going to date the turkish way...

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24 Jan 2010, 10:06 am

You would love my car then. It's a 96 Civic EX. The stock motor was ditched in favor of a B16B Civic Type-R unit with a limited slip differential. Eibach springs and KYB struts for the suspension. The gauge cluster was replaced with a 99 Civic Si unit and the steering wheel is from a 1997 EK4 SiR( dark gray with red stitching and no airbag). It has the 99-00 front end conversion and 99-00 tail lights

And I am curious what is this Turkish way of dating you mention?

If you want, I can send pics, they are a bit too large for the forums

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24 Jan 2010, 11:44 am

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most that would elicit from me is a facepalm or two, and perhaps me just wandering off somewhere else.

But an NT man would charge in there, keyboard drawn, ready to do battle with the fire-breathing dragon that is Microsoft Windows...

...and most likely wouldn't know what he's doing

well my experience tends to be, most NTs are too stupid to own a PC and keep it running properly (as in they are usually at fault for the problems.)

My method of solving computer problems, start with the easy s**t, and slowly narrow the problem down to its source, then deal with it.

As for me avoiding the squealing women because of a "distress" yeah.... the sound is completely off-putting and I want to get out of there as quickly as possible.

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24 Jan 2010, 12:39 pm

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XD It sounds really awesome...I admit I don't get much of the jargon. i'd like to see pics, though

and maybe an explanation of what that stuff does :oops:

well, as someone mentioned...the dude would go to the parents. it's almost arranged. this is a very traditional sort of dating here. then of course virtually all turkish men just want a woman to pork and make food.....XD

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24 Jan 2010, 1:31 pm

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then of course virtually all turkish men just want a woman to pork and make food.....XD

I think that goes for the majority of men the world over >_>

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24 Jan 2010, 1:49 pm

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Well, I can make my own food so...lol

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24 Jan 2010, 4:01 pm

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You like to work on cars? I find that an attractive quality in a girl... infact, I like the girls who act like one of the guys...

You mean like a Wrench Wench?

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24 Jan 2010, 5:49 pm

I wouldnt mind that in a woman, at least would make me notice her more because she... ahem... has the balls, metaphorically speaking, to curbstomp the classic female image, which is in dire need of it.

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24 Jan 2010, 6:37 pm

DemonAbyss10 wrote:

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then of course virtually all turkish men just want a woman to pork and make food.....XD

I think that goes for the majority of men the world over >_>

they are an extreme. and the majority of men are terrible and useless if that's the case D:

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