Repetitive Rejection is NORMAL

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Stop sexually harassing me. My sex life is hectic as it is. If you want to participate please get in line like all the others. Thnx

(S)he's not sexually harassing you. (S)he criticised your attitude and opinion. It's not the same thing.

No she was criticizing my very person. She and you are also quite unpleasant and humourless.

Or maybe we just think you aren't cool or funny? You seem like a repressed guy trying to lie to yourself and others. And theres nothing funny about portraying symptoms of a 14 year old geek who has just seen his first porn magazine.

A 12 year old might find you funny. I doubt it though.

I don't like you at all. I'd be very pleased if you did not write any more posts directed at me in the future. I will do likewise.

Not everything is about you, kanye...

If this was a loosely-moderated board I would be sounding off on this moody little girl and make her cry ....

But I am mindful of being banned.

I doubt very much you could make me cry.
Don't tell me what to do, if you have a problem with people addressing your posts, don't make idiotic ones.

You are so SEXY!

Repetitive rejection is normal without a doubt.

Simple math really:

A shy, quiet type of guy who is nevertheless intelligent, deep, and worth getting to know only approaches five girls over the course of a month, and gets rejected by all five. His failure rate is 100%. He curses his bad luck and then turns the blame inwards, to analyze what he thinks is wrong with him, and why so many other men seem to have more success.

Now, an outgoing, more sociable type of guy approaches 20 girls over the course of a month (at parties, clubs, bars, etc.), gets shot down by 18 of the 20, but still manages to at least get a date (or more) from 2. Even though he got rejected much more often than the first guy, he has still had much more success as well.

This explains the oft-cited phenomenon of quiet nice young gentlemen who just want to find one girl to date having absolutely no luck in attracting a girl, while guys who like to party up and get totally hammered out at clubs and bars every night constantly have attractive young women in their company.

From what I've seen in many cities both in the USA and in foreign countries, if you're a complete sociopath rockstar / artist / actor wannabe who spends each night chugging a bottle of Jack Daniels out at the newest or trendiest club, you're still much more likely to constantly be surrounded by / be friends with / date / hook up with a neverending stream of beautiful young women who also seem unavoidably attracted to clubs and bars, provided you have enough tattoos, piercings, muscles, and other various types of plumage. lol.

The ironic part of this being that these types of guys are generally obsessed with partying nonstop with their buddies who look, dress, and act similarly, and usually can easily manage to get many pretty girls to become totally obsessed with them while giving absolutely no affection in return, beyond the random drunken hook up or booty call here or there.

However, if you're a quiet, nice, soulful guy just looking to find a nice girl to take out on a date, snuggle up with, and generally treat like a gentleman, then you're likely to be totally out of luck.

That's exactly right. A lot of the people who complain probably hardly ever approach people. It's the same with jobs. Go for 5, get rejected for 5. Go for 100, get rejected for 98.

If you go for 1000 and get rejected for 1000 there is probably something wrong and that is when you need to seriously consider and learn what that is, and help yourself improve it. Maybe you only go for "hot" chicks. Maybe you only go for people who dress a certain way or have a certain colour hair. Maybe you're rude in your approach, there are 1000s of reasons and it shouldn't be too hard for you and people who know you to figure out what those are.

I don't mean to single anyone out, but there are members here who I would like to see success for because they seem to be guenuine and caring, Toad for example. You probably aren't approaching enough people.

Well, I just let them come to me.

I sift through them as a prospector sifts the gold out of a stream.

I am a connoisseur, I taste women as if they were refined wines.

I am womanizing for Jesus, and don't you ever forget that.

Good analogy, it is surprisingly similar.



Now that's something I haven't heard before.

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This is why I often question whether I'm really Aspergers. Again, like I told my psychiatrist, it looks far more like I'm schizotypal. I use turns of phrase, metaphorical and literary language all the time. I have a very refined sense of humour and I am a wordsmith. Aspergers people seem to me to be interminably dull in their writing and their reading comprehension.

Maybe I'm just superior to the rest of you.