11 Jun 2010, 3:59 pm
Abraham wrote:
I'd rather die a young man having hot sex than an old man who lived his entire life worried about catching cold off a hot girl. 
You don't have to worry about anything. Condoms reduce the risk of STD's. Can you explain again why you have a problem with that?
13 Jun 2010, 1:35 am
13 Jun 2010, 3:55 am
Abraham wrote:
I'd rather die a young man having hot sex than an old man who lived his entire life worried about catching cold off a hot girl.
I'm rather the opposite, as I am paranoid about things like STDs and AIDS, and given that I don't put that much trust into people's claims about their past or lives, which in this case it would be their sex life, I'd tend to be extreme on this matter and prefer to avoid sexual contact for fear of this, given that condoms are not 100% guarantee of safety, heck! I even heard some claiming they got pregnant using protection. And well, it's has been said that sex is great and all that, but there is always a catch that comes with it. Anyway, I think I would prefer things the old fashion way about relationships in real life, but that doesn't seem to exist anymore which adds to the difficulty, unless, perhaps within a conservative church, but I'm not into that. In the end, I'm all for safety above everything else.
13 Jun 2010, 4:14 am
Who_Am_I wrote:
Abraham wrote:
Because people who use those 'johnny hats' all the time are missing out on something too.
Yeah. Children. In my view, missing out on them is good.
well, actually, for a man at least, it feels better without a condom on, which of course as it is more pleasureable it gets a lot riskier.
And yeah, I agree that missing out children is a GOOD thing.
Abraham wrote:
Now, are you forgetting that God himself - nature, in other words - has ordained the death penalty for millions of sexually active people over the years? Syphilis, chlamydia, HIV ....
I am constantly reminded of that, but if sex is a sin, then why did God (for the sake of argument) made us sexual beings, wouldn't it be better for humans to reproduce asexually or being hermaphrodites and able to reproduce oneself?
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Just because you can 'use protection' doesn't mean that nature is not trying to dissuade us from constant 'free love'.
I think most people may be smart enough to always consider protection, however, I could be so wrong.
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It is quite clear that the best kind of sex is 'unprotected' natural sex with a partner who is enjoying it as much as you are.
You know, some catholics believe that using condoms is wrong, so that could be an excuse not to use them. Anyway, I believe you could only do that safetly with your wife, that if both are actually loyal to each other, if there is cheating going on, then there is also the risk, hence why I'd be a bit paranoid.
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So then, how now?
However, if one had only one day to live, then why not? you could do many things and get away with it.
