Woman: what physical traits must a potential boyfreind have?

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EW! I don't like guys who use shampoo called "tramp" after all, who likes a manwhore.

:sigh: soft long hair, I can't date guys with short hair or buzz cuts because I have a sensory issue to bristly things.

Don't underestimate the power of the "lush" tramp and other hand made dollops of trendy organic chemical hygeniene agents

Sorry sir...but apple pie is the way to go in guy-hair

If my hair smelled of apple i'd probably try to eat it.

You said you love very long hair and the picture Laz used to show how much he agrees with you has a bald man on it.

That's quite ironic.

Oh, I get it. Very ironic

soft long hair??! goodness me.
that 'bristly' short hair can feel lovely to stroke

Short hair isn't always bristly. I hate buzz cuts and bald heads also. Yuck.

As far as women wanting their man to look "fit and healthy" - I'm not one of those women. I would take a strong man with a bit of wobble over muscle tone any day. I would prefer to date a man who thinks the same of women.

I am way WAY more attracted to men who are attracted to what I have, as opposed to what I don't.

Example: I am more attracted to men who like big boobs than small ones. I'm more attracted to men who don't care about women being "toned".

LOL @ some of the females in this thread.


The same one's that said that physical appearance doesn't matter in the "What do you look for a guy thread"


I mean naturally we do care about physical appearance. I'm just laughing that a lot of you are contradicting yourself in this thread. You know who you are

Being 95% attracted to personality doesn't mean physical apperance doesn't matter. I honestly don't know if you mean me or not. I'm attracted to the esscence of the soul, really, over all else.

And I wouldn't date an athiest, not now, not ever. I would take a 5 foot nothing man who shares my spirituaity over a 6 foot 5 Athiest.

What about an Agnostic? You know, maybe they just weren't sure. Also it's worth noting that guys 6 foot 5, surely bang their heads on stuff and get bad backs. And you have to look up their noses if your short.

Agnostic is fine. Its one "religion" that I find to be very adaptable.
I could date someone of a different religion only if they didn't try to convert me or rub it my face or laugh at my beliefs. Since my beliefs are such an enormous part of my life, its unlikely anything will work with someone of varying different beliefs(Especially atheism and Chrisianity). Unless he was an agnostic willing to put up with me.

I had a girlfriend once who queried my views on such things, and I said something along the line of I have no idea and I suppose we were random meaningless atoms just moving around. Pretty much I felt that because I hadn't seen any evidence to the contrary. She felt she was a very spiritual person, so that was a big turn off, actually she kind of went into shock for a bit
As far as I can see science doesn't disagree with god, there's all the stuff about the big bang, but what made the big bang? Revelations might be a stretch for me though.

The big bang could very well be nonsense. That's why it's a theory.

I have a lot of things that I prefer, physically, but they can go right out the window if I meet someone with the right personality. For example:

A few years ago I had a very specific idea of how I wanted my boyfriend to look. Tall, thin, with lean muscle, long dark hair, and green eyes. I wasn't actively looking, but if you had asked me at the time what I wanted, that's what I would have said. I met someone online, and saw a picture of him shortly after we met. He was short, chubby, with curly blond hair and blue eyes. And I fell in love quickly. We dated for 2 years.

My current boyfriend is tall, chubby, with super short blond hair (though it used to be super long, like down to his hips) and blue eyes. We've been dating for 4 and a half years now. So while looks are important, they are not the most important thing to me. I think many other women feel the same way, and I prefer a guy who also feels this way.