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14 Nov 2010, 3:22 am

I think AspieGuy is just making this poll so we can "prove" his point; that women only want men with money, good looks, or high status (even though we weren't given any other options). I'll go with guy 4 :wink:

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14 Nov 2010, 3:56 am

Stellar wrote:

I think AspieGuy is just making this poll so we can "prove" his point; that women only want men with money, good looks, or high status (even though we weren't given any other options).

^ smart cookie.

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14 Nov 2010, 5:03 am

^ Ditto katzefrau.

Stellar wrote:

I think AspieGuy is just making this poll so we can "prove" his point; that women only want men with money, good looks, or high status (even though we weren't given any other options).

Guess he was proven incorrect? :wink:

hyperlexian's #4 sounded best to me too.

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14 Nov 2010, 9:07 am

Well, this post proves that I can't win over women with muscles and money

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14 Nov 2010, 9:26 am

I married #4.

Except for the dead bugs. He collects dead eletronics instead.

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14 Nov 2010, 10:32 am

MotherKnowsBest wrote:

I married #4.

Except for the dead bugs. He collects dead eletronics instead.

that's HOT!

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14 Nov 2010, 10:36 am

Where are all these folks that like #4 (or a slight variation thereof) coming from? Because if people like that existed in my life, I wouldnt be having all the problems that I'm having...

Or is it because I'm not thin?

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14 Nov 2010, 10:49 am

ToadOfSteel wrote:

Honestly, I think they are claiming they like #4 because they don't have the qaulities to attract a jacked and/or good looking guy. Plus, it's socially un-acceptable to claim that looks/money matters. The reality is that they do in ADDITION to personaility.

That's what all women say when muscles/money doesn't matter.

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14 Nov 2010, 10:49 am

ToadOfSteel wrote:

hmmm good question. i based it partially on my husband and he happens to be thin. but i wouldn't have eliminated other men based on their weight.

but... even though he was social phobic he still went out with people quite a bit. so his chances were increased according to that.

he still attracts quite a lot of women in his current persona (classy salesman), because women are endeared to his kindness, thoughtfulness, and self-effacing personality (and his scatterbrained quality. women like to take care of him).

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14 Nov 2010, 10:53 am

ApsieGuy wrote:

ToadOfSteel wrote:

not really true. i've dated a bodybuilder, a football player, a punk rock musician, a well-off electrician, a man who did some modelling (it was as a side job only), etc... but i preferred guys like #4.

if it makes you feel better to think that we are somehow deficient and that's why we like guys who are "different", you need to know you are deluded.

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14 Nov 2010, 11:13 am

I would prefer a combination of guy #4 and 6. I always like a guy who can cook.

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14 Nov 2010, 11:40 am

hyperlexian wrote:

ApsieGuy wrote:

ToadOfSteel wrote:

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Your right....

However, I find I need a bachelors degree and a decent job to stop feeling like such an insecure idiot.

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14 Nov 2010, 11:56 am

ApsieGuy wrote:

hyperlexian wrote:

ApsieGuy wrote:

ToadOfSteel wrote:

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Your right....

However, I find I need a bachelors degree and a decent job to stop feeling like such an insecure idiot.

well, those two things are a good idea, definitely. but i think higher education and working at a job isn't too common with aspies is it? i try to encourage people anyways.

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14 Nov 2010, 12:45 pm

ApsieGuy wrote:

ToadOfSteel wrote:

Nah. My last boyfriend (before my husband) was good looking, into bodybuilding and completely loaded.

And selfish and controlling and uncaring. We were together for 4 years before I decided enough was enough.

My husband is very much #4, but don't take my word for it. He lurks around this forum too. Goes by the name Woodpecker. Ask him yourself if you don't believe me.

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14 Nov 2010, 12:53 pm

ToadOfSteel wrote:

My husband met me (his first and only girlfriend) at dance classes. He joined an adults evening class to learn latin american and ballroom dancing. 6 months later I joined the same class. The thing is, at dance classes there are normally more females than males so it's a good place to increase your chances of meeting someone you get one with.

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14 Nov 2010, 1:02 pm

As a reply to emilion in the other thread:

Nope, I don't care whether I am rejected here or not. I am totally indifferent.

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