How to improve your chances with women. (ABRIDGED VERSION)

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thedaywalker
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24 Nov 2010, 6:32 pm

i'm a guy and i would say stop blaming woman. if you can get a woman it is because either one of two things yourself or there is no such thing as blame since there is only action reaction.



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24 Nov 2010, 6:33 pm

Nice list. Who's the target audience?



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24 Nov 2010, 6:42 pm

People who I think should shut up, listen, and quit being an ass? :?

Yeah, that would've been an even shorter list. I'll fix the OP.



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24 Nov 2010, 7:19 pm

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For someone who is not a woman you sure seem to know a lot about living as a woman. :roll:


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24 Nov 2010, 7:23 pm

techstepgenr8tion wrote:
Nice list. Who's the target audience?


To be honest, I think I can name a few. The main person I am thinking of does seem to have gotten better with it though. I have been notoriously rough about it in the past whenever he would post the "wah women suck because I can't get any" type of topics.


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24 Nov 2010, 9:15 pm

ZakFiend wrote:
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For someone who is not a woman you sure seem to know a lot about living as a woman. :roll:


Having friends does wonders for your life.


It's not really a reliable sample.



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24 Nov 2010, 9:48 pm

Why are these the only threads that get replies in the L&D section?


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24 Nov 2010, 9:53 pm

You could learn a thing or two from these posts.



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24 Nov 2010, 9:56 pm

Why is everyone being so scratchy. >.<



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24 Nov 2010, 10:03 pm

Tim_Tex wrote:
Why are these the only threads that get replies in the L&D section?

Unfortunately I think this is what we're better at. I wholeheartedly agree though, not a good sign.



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24 Nov 2010, 10:59 pm

techstepgenr8tion wrote:
Tim_Tex wrote:
Why are these the only threads that get replies in the L&D section?

Unfortunately I think this is what we're better at. I wholeheartedly agree though, not a good sign.


right. hmph.

i am going to rewrite the rules (can apply to both men and women)

1. be yourself.

if rule #1 is not working ..

2. have a good attitude about yourself (despite your flaws and despite past difficulties) and about the opposite sex (or the same sex if that is who you prefer)

if that still is not working ..

3. examine your standards to see if they are realistic, for example do not seek people who are overly social or who are physical tens if you are not either of these things. seek someone who will truly like you.

if this still is not working ..

4. get off the computer and meet some actual live human girls (or boys)

although i have to say i can't really disagree with the new improved edited rules in the first post.


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24 Nov 2010, 11:02 pm

katzefrau wrote:
techstepgenr8tion wrote:
Tim_Tex wrote:
Why are these the only threads that get replies in the L&D section?

Unfortunately I think this is what we're better at. I wholeheartedly agree though, not a good sign.


right. hmph.

i am going to rewrite the rules (can apply to both men and women)

1. be yourself.

if rule #1 is not working ..

2. have a good attitude about yourself (despite your flaws and despite past difficulties) and about the opposite sex (or the same sex if that is who you prefer)

if that still is not working ..

3. examine your standards to see if they are realistic, for example do not seek people who are overly social or who are physical tens if you are not either of these things. seek someone who will truly like you.

if this still is not working ..

4. get off the computer and meet some actual live human girls (or boys)

although i have to say i can't really disagree with the new improved edited rules in the first post.

good rules. they get a hyperlexian stamp of approval! :thumleft:


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24 Nov 2010, 11:23 pm

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good rules. they get a hyperlexian stamp of approval! :thumleft:


heh. thanks. i wish i knew how to follow them myself.


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24 Nov 2010, 11:44 pm

katzefrau wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
good rules. they get a hyperlexian stamp of approval! :thumleft:


heh. thanks. i wish i knew how to follow them myself.

i just realized how arrogant my response sounds :oops: . sorry if it looks that way as i did not intend it at all! i was just being effusive. you invariably give very good advice (even if you don't listen to it yourself).


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24 Nov 2010, 11:55 pm

hyperlexian wrote:
katzefrau wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
good rules. they get a hyperlexian stamp of approval! :thumleft:


heh. thanks. i wish i knew how to follow them myself.

i just realized how arrogant my response sounds :oops: . sorry if it looks that way as i did not intend it at all!


no, i didn't interpret it like that at all ..
"thumbs up" means "thumbs up"

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25 Nov 2010, 1:36 am

katzefrau wrote:
techstepgenr8tion wrote:
Tim_Tex wrote:
Why are these the only threads that get replies in the L&D section?

Unfortunately I think this is what we're better at. I wholeheartedly agree though, not a good sign.


right. hmph.

i am going to rewrite the rules (can apply to both men and women)

1. be yourself.

if rule #1 is not working ..

2. have a good attitude about yourself (despite your flaws and despite past difficulties) and about the opposite sex (or the same sex if that is who you prefer)

if that still is not working ..

3. examine your standards to see if they are realistic, for example do not seek people who are overly social or who are physical tens if you are not either of these things. seek someone who will truly like you.

if this still is not working ..

4. get off the computer and meet some actual live human girls (or boys)

although i have to say i can't really disagree with the new improved edited rules in the first post.


I agree, good rules.