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RonSpergandy
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03 Dec 2010, 5:46 pm

how many should I buy??

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03 Dec 2010, 5:47 pm

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I thought she was very pretty so whenever we would work together i'd make sure to tell her that as much as I could. She gave me a couple weird looks but i think its because she was flirting back with me Wink

Nope, definitely not flirting back. I agree with those who say that you probably seriously creeped her out.

As for the rest (turning up at her house etc); I'd cut that out now. The others are right, it is stalkerish and you are at risk of getting into serious trouble if she complains the college about you.

She's not interested and I don't think you have any chance of changing her mind. Just be polite and treat her as any other acquaintance.

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03 Dec 2010, 5:48 pm

Ok, now I know you are not serious. I'm not responding to you anymore.

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03 Dec 2010, 5:49 pm

BirdoLvr wrote:

OK fine rainingroses, if what we did was all wrong, set us right?

Who's "we"? How many of you are baking f*ing cookies?? And why don't I get cookies???

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03 Dec 2010, 5:50 pm

A woman that believes the guy is a stalker obviously has some weird notions of relationships of their own. It is not the guys fault of what happened to her in her past. He just inherits her mess of a mind.

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03 Dec 2010, 5:51 pm

RainingRoses wrote:

BirdoLvr wrote:

OK fine rainingroses, if what we did was all wrong, set us right?

Who's "we"? How many of you are baking f*ing cookies?? And why don't I get cookies???

RonSpergandy
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03 Dec 2010, 5:52 pm

Craig28 wrote:

this man speaks the truth

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03 Dec 2010, 5:52 pm

Craig28 wrote:

The guy who doesn't understand that this is stalking is a stalker.

Last edited by MidlifeAspie on 03 Dec 2010, 5:56 pm, edited 1 time in total.

RonSpergandy
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03 Dec 2010, 5:55 pm

chiyoko wrote:

Ok, now I know you are not serious. I'm not responding to you anymore.

why can't you just help me?

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03 Dec 2010, 5:56 pm

MidlifeAspie wrote:

Craig28 wrote:

I guy who doesn't understand that this is stalking is a stalker.

I completely understand what stalking is. I was just pointing out that a woman who immediately thinks that a guy is weird must have some unhealthy mindset about relationships. In a society where cheating on each other is the norm, a guy like me who has never had a relationship but who wants one is in for a very tough time. So far, I have had 3 woman who I have gone towards, but who have knocked me back due to their own unhealthy mindsets.

RonSpergandy
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03 Dec 2010, 5:57 pm

MidlifeAspie wrote:

Craig28 wrote:

I guy who doesn't understand that this is stalking is a stalker.

how is baking cookies stalking???
all of her information is public

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03 Dec 2010, 5:57 pm

chiyoko wrote:

BirdoLvr I don't see anything you did wrong. It was sweet. Who told you it was inappropriate?

my teacher. she said that i shouldent give gifts unless they are asked for. and i am not ronspergyer or how ever you spell that name. sigh I can't think of a way to prove i am not him. any sugestions to prove i am not him? I just noticed the topic and thought it applyed to my current situation.

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03 Dec 2010, 6:00 pm

Craig28 wrote:

MidlifeAspie wrote:

Craig28 wrote:

I guy who doesn't understand that this is stalking is a stalker.

Just so I have this straight - You believe that if you stare at a girl in class, then go home and look her up online, read her correspondences with other people to determine what her schedule is, bake a bunch of cookies and then show up at her house unannounced, shove the cookies at her and run - that if she finds this creepy and stalkerish that she must have some pretty serious baggage that she would be somehow foisting on you?

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03 Dec 2010, 6:00 pm

BirdoLvr wrote:

chiyoko wrote:

BirdoLvr I don't see anything you did wrong. It was sweet. Who told you it was inappropriate?

You guys are definitely the same person. Post pics of yourself to prove otherwise. Ron, I think that if I saw your pic I might even be able to give you some fashion advice so that you can really get her hot and bothered.

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03 Dec 2010, 6:00 pm

Trolls like cookies.

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RonSpergandy
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03 Dec 2010, 6:03 pm

So I sent an email to the girl:

Hey ********,

Its me, Ron, from class. I hope you enjoyed the cookies I baked for you?? I spent a lot of time baking them and I really wanted to impress you. Sooooooo, how's life? Are you enjoying dancing?

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