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24 Dec 2010, 4:36 pm

yeah I ain't being with someone I don't want
waste of my time and money



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25 Dec 2010, 1:52 am

Jamesy wrote:
Ironicly aspie traits in women are actually liked by NT men.


I'm really interested in how you figure this. 8O


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25 Dec 2010, 5:51 am

Bethie wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
Ironicly aspie traits in women are actually liked by NT men.


I'm really interested in how you figure this. 8O


A lack of social and emotional reciprocity is HAWT. Almost as much as lecturing everyone you meet on one topic, or having body language that makes it seems as though you're perpetually stoned.


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25 Dec 2010, 5:53 am

Who_Am_I wrote:
A lack of social and emotional reciprocity is HAWT. Almost as much as lecturing everyone you meet on one topic, or having body language that makes it seems as though you're perpetually stoned.

I'm such a STUD! :lol:



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25 Dec 2010, 5:55 am

DaWalker wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
A lack of social and emotional reciprocity is HAWT. Almost as much as lecturing everyone you meet on one topic, or having body language that makes it seems as though you're perpetually stoned.

I'm such a STUD! :lol:


It only works if you're female. If you're male it repels everyone.
Sorry. :(


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25 Dec 2010, 6:10 am

I'm both, depending on what mood she's in :lol:



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25 Dec 2010, 10:10 pm

Who_Am_I wrote:
DaWalker wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
A lack of social and emotional reciprocity is HAWT. Almost as much as lecturing everyone you meet on one topic, or having body language that makes it seems as though you're perpetually stoned.

I'm such a STUD! :lol:


It only works if you're female. If you're male it repels everyone.
Sorry. :(

Life's hard. I'm glad to see you have a good sense of humor at least. :wink:



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25 Dec 2010, 10:29 pm

its funny cause its true



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25 Dec 2010, 10:33 pm

If you have AS and things don't work out with a girl, don't be bitter. She probably did you a favor anyways.



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25 Dec 2010, 10:35 pm

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Yep. But like it's been said before in this thread and in dozens of others, There's only two reasonable options; 1. work at getting better at getting girlfriends. 2. get over it, do something else.

There's option 3: get over yourself, lower your standards, date the first girl who shows interest in you, be thankful for it, and treat her well. A guy who can't get a date can be a great boyfriend if he's given a chance. Well, if a girl gives you a chance, take it, regardless of your attraction to her. Guys have the ability to date and be intimate with people they're not attracted to; girls do not. That's how I got the first date I've gone on in my life, as well as my first time having sex for free. So if you're not taking advantage of that ability, then you're only making things worse for yourself. (This doesn't mean taking advantage of the girl.)

This is true too. I've dated a couple BBW's and they were okay. Date a few girls like this, get some experience, and then gradually you will get more attractive women.



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25 Dec 2010, 10:35 pm

Space wrote:
If you have AS and things don't work out with a girl, don't be bitter. She probably did you a favor anyways.



what do you base that on?



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25 Dec 2010, 10:42 pm

Kilroy wrote:
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If you have AS and things don't work out with a girl, don't be bitter. She probably did you a favor anyways.



what do you base that on?

Most women don't want what I want in a relationship anyways. Would you rather have a woman dump you, or make you her b***h, get pregnant, and then force you to give her all your money. At least in MY case this is true, I won't speak for you.



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25 Dec 2010, 10:45 pm

ummm...I am far from stupid, you do know that there are ways to stop pregnancy and like...not hand people money (eg close your damn hand!)
I am not naive and easily manipulated
you, like so, so, soooooo many men here base all women on a few that have wronged you



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25 Dec 2010, 10:49 pm

I base it on what I see happening to men I work with on a regular basis.



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25 Dec 2010, 10:49 pm

Kilroy wrote:
its funny cause its true

I can't deny that it could be true for her - I simply don't know. However I can think of many women here who'd debate her on that from their own experiences.



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25 Dec 2010, 10:54 pm

Space wrote:
I base it on what I see happening to men I work with on a regular basis.


still, a small percent doesn't equal the entire female population