Brianruns10 wrote:
Someone with ambition to achieve something beyond homeownership, material accumulation and child rearing. So someone active in or aspiring to politics, public policy, art, research, law, medicine etc is my ideal.
Someone who is conscious of their own health and well being, and strives for self improvement mentally and physically...exercises, doesn't eat like a hog and stay up at all hours drinking and partying.
Someone who seeks an equal. While I want someone with ambition and drive, this doesn't mean my goals will take a backseat to hers. Rather we shall be a team, supporting one another, reveling in our successes, and soothing each other in our failures.
That is what I want.
Throw out that equal partnership crap. You need to be the one who makes the decisions and leads.