Joe90 wrote:
I don't think I'm asexual. I think about sex all the time, and only with guys (don't be fooled by my nickname!) I know what true feelings are, and if I fancy a man I think of him a lot. When I get into bed at night I imagine he is in my bed with me. I also dream of sex and men's genitals all the time.
I do have a man wanting a relationship with me, but I really don't fancy him. And I don't want to end up with someone I don't fancy because I know this will make me feel all depressed in an odd sort of way. If I have a man, I've got to have true feelings for him. There is a man I do have true feelings for me, but I don't know if he's married or not.
Good for you for not jumping into a relationship with the guy who likes you just to be in one.
And for differentiating between married and attached men. (It's kind of a shame that's note-worthy in our society, but it is.)
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