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Joker
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08 Apr 2011, 1:23 pm

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I can't imagine being with a guy who wanted to "help". 8O


Meaning, I would be the one pleasuring her.


....yes....I got that...responded...


Im not against anyone being asexual I just would end up dying from it I cant go with out sex from a girl or guy after all the only place I can be openly bisexual is on this webiste not one person has judged me....Yet



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08 Apr 2011, 5:45 pm

Joker wrote:
Bethie wrote:
emuman100 wrote:
Bethie wrote:
I can't imagine being with a guy who wanted to "help". 8O


Meaning, I would be the one pleasuring her.


....yes....I got that...responded...


Im not against anyone being asexual I just would end up dying from it I cant go with out sex from a girl or guy after all the only place I can be openly bisexual is on this webiste not one person has judged me....Yet


Yes and that is what us aces (as we are called on AVEN) ask for as well no judgement and understanding as some people seem to be doing. We exist and are genuine like bisexuals, homosexuals and hetrosexuals as someone told me like autism there is a sexuality spectrum too from nothing to totally sexual and romantic. Also I masturbate but I don't fantasise at all I just like the feeling.



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09 Apr 2011, 4:35 pm

I don't think I'm asexual. I think about sex all the time, and only with guys (don't be fooled by my nickname!) I know what true feelings are, and if I fancy a man I think of him a lot. When I get into bed at night I imagine he is in my bed with me. I also dream of sex and men's genitals all the time.

I do have a man wanting a relationship with me, but I really don't fancy him. And I don't want to end up with someone I don't fancy because I know this will make me feel all depressed in an odd sort of way. If I have a man, I've got to have true feelings for him. There is a man I do have true feelings for me, but I don't know if he's married or not.


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09 Apr 2011, 9:43 pm

Joe90 wrote:
I don't think I'm asexual. I think about sex all the time, and only with guys (don't be fooled by my nickname!) I know what true feelings are, and if I fancy a man I think of him a lot. When I get into bed at night I imagine he is in my bed with me. I also dream of sex and men's genitals all the time.

I do have a man wanting a relationship with me, but I really don't fancy him. And I don't want to end up with someone I don't fancy because I know this will make me feel all depressed in an odd sort of way. If I have a man, I've got to have true feelings for him. There is a man I do have true feelings for me, but I don't know if he's married or not.


Good for you for not jumping into a relationship with the guy who likes you just to be in one.
And for differentiating between married and attached men. (It's kind of a shame that's note-worthy in our society, but it is.)


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11 Apr 2011, 5:50 am

Joe90 wrote:
I don't think I'm asexual. I think about sex all the time, and only with guys (don't be fooled by my nickname!) I know what true feelings are, and if I fancy a man I think of him a lot. When I get into bed at night I imagine he is in my bed with me. I also dream of sex and men's genitals all the time.

I do have a man wanting a relationship with me, but I really don't fancy him. And I don't want to end up with someone I don't fancy because I know this will make me feel all depressed in an odd sort of way. If I have a man, I've got to have true feelings for him. There is a man I do have true feelings for me, but I don't know if he's married or not.
This just shows some of us are romantic and sexual some of us aren't I cant and dion't know how to feel that stuff but I am cool with that.