1) Must want kids
2) Not be lazy
3) No low self esteem nor PTSD
4) Not be into tons of sex
5) Not be needy
6) Not be highly obese, so obese they can't leave their house nor their bed
7) Not be manipulative nor paranoid

Not have any internet games addiction
9) Not be dependent on others
10) Not be controlling
11) Not be so negative nor black and white
12) Be considerate of my needs and not give me tons of anxiety
13) Must be very understanding and accept my quirks
14) Not force me to do stuff and force me into situations I don't like
15) Not be a slob
16) Must have a job, not the one he just started
17) Honesty
18) Not very ignorant, so ignorant he refuses to listen (talk about black and white)
19) Not very judgmental
20) Not argue with me and not shut up until they get me to agree with their opinions or point of views (also black and white)
21) Not be in denial of their problems
22) Not be a huge hypocrite
Had a bad experience with my ex's so this is why lot of the stuff on this list exists. I used to have must have a car but my husband changed that because he had a job and still went to work even though he didn't drive. He took buses and trains.
What if the "job they just started" is really stable and high-paying?