What's the MAJOR rule(s) you have for accepting a partner

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12 Apr 2011, 3:06 pm

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Chemistry.

yes, agreed.


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12 Apr 2011, 3:23 pm

My rules:

1:Totally loyal and obedient (I got screwed too many times with supossed friends)
2:Must love World of Warcraft
3:Have an admiration for Mussolini and Hitler and the bloody swastika 卐
4:Must be of the pure race (Depend of your race mix)
5:Chemistry
6:Hate the mass who control all things in society



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12 Apr 2011, 4:02 pm

Volodja wrote:

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Can't be bi-sexual


Why not?


I've got my reasons, I don't have to justify them here.


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12 Apr 2011, 4:27 pm

When did I say you needed to justify them?

This is a forum for discussion, right? I was just interested as to why, as I couldn't think of anything



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12 Apr 2011, 4:31 pm

Since it states partner, they have to be able to pay the rent...and food....and my clothes...and clean up after me.

See what I did there? :lol:



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12 Apr 2011, 6:42 pm

She must be a supermodel otherwise it's no deal.


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12 Apr 2011, 6:48 pm

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my main rule would be to avoid right-wingers.


Tim Tex is he OK :? he seems like the sort of guy you could have tea and bikkies with (conservatives snack of choice) as oppose to spitting bikkies and hot tea at their face.

And lets not forget they ruin economies to , will they ever learn ?


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12 Apr 2011, 6:53 pm

If he cannot control the weather, he's no use to me.



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12 Apr 2011, 8:23 pm

Must have the hots for me
Must be attracted to him

All that matters really.



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13 Apr 2011, 12:07 am

1) Must want kids
2) Not be lazy
3) No low self esteem nor PTSD
4) Not be into tons of sex
5) Not be needy
6) Not be highly obese, so obese they can't leave their house nor their bed
7) Not be manipulative nor paranoid
8) Not have any internet games addiction
9) Not be dependent on others
10) Not be controlling
11) Not be so negative nor black and white
12) Be considerate of my needs and not give me tons of anxiety
13) Must be very understanding and accept my quirks
14) Not force me to do stuff and force me into situations I don't like
15) Not be a slob
16) Must have a job, not the one he just started
17) Honesty
18) Not very ignorant, so ignorant he refuses to listen (talk about black and white)
19) Not very judgmental
20) Not argue with me and not shut up until they get me to agree with their opinions or point of views (also black and white)
21) Not be in denial of their problems
22) Not be a huge hypocrite

Had a bad experience with my ex's so this is why lot of the stuff on this list exists. I used to have must have a car but my husband changed that because he had a job and still went to work even though he didn't drive. He took buses and trains.



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13 Apr 2011, 6:22 am

League_Girl wrote:
4) Not be into tons of sex


Men who are into tons of sex, please form a line over here. Thank you.



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13 Apr 2011, 11:21 am

League_Girl wrote:
1) Must want kids
2) Not be lazy
3) No low self esteem nor PTSD
4) Not be into tons of sex
5) Not be needy
6) Not be highly obese, so obese they can't leave their house nor their bed
7) Not be manipulative nor paranoid
8) Not have any internet games addiction
9) Not be dependent on others
10) Not be controlling
11) Not be so negative nor black and white
12) Be considerate of my needs and not give me tons of anxiety
13) Must be very understanding and accept my quirks
14) Not force me to do stuff and force me into situations I don't like
15) Not be a slob
16) Must have a job, not the one he just started
17) Honesty
18) Not very ignorant, so ignorant he refuses to listen (talk about black and white)
19) Not very judgmental
20) Not argue with me and not shut up until they get me to agree with their opinions or point of views (also black and white)
21) Not be in denial of their problems
22) Not be a huge hypocrite

Had a bad experience with my ex's so this is why lot of the stuff on this list exists. I used to have must have a car but my husband changed that because he had a job and still went to work even though he didn't drive. He took buses and trains.


What if the "job they just started" is really stable and high-paying?


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13 Apr 2011, 11:44 am

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16) Must have a job, not the one he just started



:study:


:huh:

What was that?



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13 Apr 2011, 10:18 pm

They must not treat me like a joke or tease me constantly.

They must not give me a hard time.

They need to have patience.

They need to communicate with me clearly.

They need to not be in the middle of a rebound. No good ever comes out of having a partner who was recently gotten out of a previous relationship. Usually not enough time has passed to determine whether feelings still linger from their past relationship.



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14 Apr 2011, 1:16 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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16) Must have a job, not the one he just started



:study:


:huh:

What was that?


I had an ex who feeloaded off me and he has no job and then he got one and got fired because he was unreliable (he just didn't want to work) and I was his meal ticket so mom had me make a list in my head for my next guy and she listed this and I agreed about it. So if the next guy I met just got a new job when we met, you never know if he will want to quit too or just skip work or try and buy his way not going to work. My ex told his boss he couldn't for for three weeks because my family was going to Wisconsin and my car was in the shop and that was the last time his boss ever put him on schedule again. Even when I talked to my boss if I can leave work for five minutes to take him to work, she was okay with it and I told my ex about it and he didn't like that idea. He had all these crazy excuses to why he didn't want to go to work with me and sit around and wait until it's time for me to take him to work. Every solution I came up with for that situation he blew off. So I never want to be with a man who has a job he just got because of this. So not going to risk going through that again.


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What if the "job they just started" is really stable and high-paying?



I don't go after money. The guy has to be right for me, not for how much they are making.



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14 Apr 2011, 2:30 pm

Extroverted, agnostic, artistic, open-minded, no recreational drug-use (I have no real reason for this but I deeply hate the idea of drugs and drug use.), positive, not super-sexual, and finally, must be able to take my overlovingness...