for Girls : what man would you choose?
And some really start make personal attacks against the thread's poster if they see "weird threads" and try to make conclusions on someone they never met b4 about his social/sexual/childhood/health/religious/ .... not really different than NTs ...or maybe they are NT/aspie wannabes?
Didn't you say this?
So yes, you are just trying to show up people as being superficial. And I'm not analysing, I'm stating the bleeding obvious.
Edit: I hope this post doesn't sound hostile, because I didn't mean it that way.
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Many people use analyses other than just psychologist, personally I analyze people so that I can better understand them and the things that they say. How can I communicate with people if I don’t understand them? And how can I understand people, or the words that they say, if I don’t analyze them?
And some really start make personal attacks against the thread's poster if they see "weird threads" and try to make conclusions on someone they never met b4 about his social/sexual/childhood/health/religious/ .... not really different than NTs ...or maybe they are NT/aspie wannabes?
Didn't you say this?
So yes, you are just trying to show up people as being superficial. And I'm not analysing, I'm stating the bleeding obvious.
Let s say that I am trying to show that people care about the looks first then the personality ....this doensn't mean they are superficial ...but they are pratical.
Most people say "it s all about personality" ....I say not it s not there s a lie behind this sentence ...it s not always all about personality .
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One rule for you and another rule for the rest of us? The trouble with a forum is unless you are the moderator, you don't control what other people post. And even if you are the moderator, all you can do is delete or edit what other people post. You can't make them post what you want them to.
life is not fair , huh?
Again when i use "gentle" descripiton i mean he s listener and caring .....
and if you felt that i am trying to push you to post something that i want then you are wrong ...i jsut want you to be on topic ...not to start asking me questions that lead to other discussions.
Anyway i am sorry if I offended someone somehow.
Now plz back to topic.
see Cherokee? when u said man #2 is obviously the easiest option you were just talking about your personaly opinion. In fact , the 4 options were well balanced in +/- points...and now i rebalanced it better to avoid silly accusation later.
The truth is petit prince is just frustrated that he has more difficulty with the opposite sex then others. But instead of sucking it up and improving himself he's venting here.
The truth is that you don't know me to judge and plus I am free to vent where I like .
Sorry man but what you wrote proves you're trying to prove a point, and only those who have an axe to grind would post something like what you did. I didn't mean it to offend you, many aspies struggle with the opposite sex.
Hmm
Well number 2 would be ok except for that thing about worshipping everything about me. Not even I do that or want that. I'm not perfect - I need all the help I can get dealing with my flaws or compensating for them, I don't need them worshipped - blech. This contradicts most of the other qualities you list about #2. Not that most of us aren't full of inner conflicts and contradictory beliefs. Well I am.
So I go for number 4. I'm pretty much too old to have my own kids anyway.
That is the equivalent of saying, "If you don't like what I say, then just shutup, you are not allowed to post your opinion if it is negative". That is a stupid and unreasonable thing to say.
No, all you get is answers to an artificial unrealistic scenario.
Anyway, there is no need for this quizzing, the situation in real life is obvious: People ideally desire and will try to get BOTH inner and outer beauty.
You can analyze people as much as you want, although you should be aware that if a person reads/hears your analysis of them, and the analysis contains negative points, then some (many?) people will be offended. You may decide to do it anyway, depending on the situation. On the other hand, if the analysis is all positive, they will probably enjoy reading it.
