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27 Aug 2006, 2:59 am

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Well some people just like to spoil the threads with off-topics and try to analyze things ....maybe these things are wrong maybe true ....but still off-topics .
And some really start make personal attacks against the thread's poster if they see "weird threads" and try to make conclusions on someone they never met b4 about his social/sexual/childhood/health/religious/ .... not really different than NTs ...or maybe they are NT/aspie wannabes?


Didn't you say this?

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I made this games to see how many of you really care about the inner beauty...


So yes, you are just trying to show up people as being superficial. And I'm not analysing, I'm stating the bleeding obvious.

Edit: I hope this post doesn't sound hostile, because I didn't mean it that way.



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27 Aug 2006, 3:29 am

Many people use analyses other than just psychologist, personally I analyze people so that I can better understand them and the things that they say. How can I communicate with people if I don’t understand them? And how can I understand people, or the words that they say, if I don’t analyze them?



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27 Aug 2006, 5:20 am

Enigmatic_Oddity wrote:
LePetitPrince wrote:
Well some people just like to spoil the threads with off-topics and try to analyze things ....maybe these things are wrong maybe true ....but still off-topics .
And some really start make personal attacks against the thread's poster if they see "weird threads" and try to make conclusions on someone they never met b4 about his social/sexual/childhood/health/religious/ .... not really different than NTs ...or maybe they are NT/aspie wannabes?

Didn't you say this?

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I made this games to see how many of you really care about the inner beauty...


So yes, you are just trying to show up people as being superficial. And I'm not analysing, I'm stating the bleeding obvious.


Let s say that I am trying to show that people care about the looks first then the personality ....this doensn't mean they are superficial ...but they are pratical.

Most people say "it s all about personality" ....I say not it s not there s a lie behind this sentence ...it s not always all about personality .


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The truth is that you don't know me to judge and plus I am free to vent where I like.

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I already said if you don't like the thread then don't post


One rule for you and another rule for the rest of us? The trouble with a forum is unless you are the moderator, you don't control what other people post. And even if you are the moderator, all you can do is delete or edit what other people post. You can't make them post what you want them to.


life is not fair , huh? :lol: ....look what i mean by venting is saying what ever i like to say ....maybe in chats and maybe by making threads but not in spoiling others's threads and posting off-topics.

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I pick the guy who is a good listener and isn't a control freak.


Again when i use "gentle" descripiton i mean he s listener and caring .....


and if you felt that i am trying to push you to post something that i want then you are wrong ...i jsut want you to be on topic ...not to start asking me questions that lead to other discussions.

Anyway i am sorry if I offended someone somehow.


Now plz back to topic.



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27 Aug 2006, 6:11 am

;) just to please you Cherokee I edited the man# 2 and I added more negative points so you can' say anymore that he s the easiest option (tho i tought the first version was enough) so go read it again ...now he s aslo ugly and freaky nerd and no-money wise at all .



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27 Aug 2006, 6:20 am

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I not only pick number 2 my current boyfriend is number 2(well, not a m***et to me...because I am short)I tthink the number one thing is sharing common interests and liking to be around each other but feeling secure enough to allow each other space(in my case,alot of space)I have been with guys who were "more handsom"...never been with anyone who had much money but I am frugil by nature, but I have never been more happy then being with someone who has same interestes....thats number 1 to me...(and being adored helps too)


see Cherokee? when u said man #2 is obviously the easiest option you were just talking about your personaly opinion. In fact , the 4 options were well balanced in +/- points...and now i rebalanced it better to avoid silly accusation later. :roll:



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27 Aug 2006, 9:43 am

LePetitPrince wrote:
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Well the obvious choice is of course number 2. But you’ve made it way to easy to chouse the right guy in this scenario. And what’s more you’ve obviously modeled this guy after what you would like to think of as yourself. So the question I have for you is, why did you make this little game? Are you trying to dupe unsuspecting females into saying that they would like a guy like you?


The truth is petit prince is just frustrated that he has more difficulty with the opposite sex then others. But instead of sucking it up and improving himself he's venting here.


The truth is that you don't know me to judge and plus I am free to vent where I like .


Sorry man but what you wrote proves you're trying to prove a point, and only those who have an axe to grind would post something like what you did. I didn't mean it to offend you, many aspies struggle with the opposite sex.



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27 Aug 2006, 9:51 am

I'd go gay for robot slaves.



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27 Aug 2006, 11:33 pm

Hmm

Well number 2 would be ok except for that thing about worshipping everything about me. Not even I do that or want that. I'm not perfect - I need all the help I can get dealing with my flaws or compensating for them, I don't need them worshipped - blech. This contradicts most of the other qualities you list about #2. Not that most of us aren't full of inner conflicts and contradictory beliefs. Well I am.

So I go for number 4. I'm pretty much too old to have my own kids anyway.



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28 Aug 2006, 3:36 am

LePetitPrince wrote:
^^ look , I already said if you don't like the thread then don't post

That is the equivalent of saying, "If you don't like what I say, then just shutup, you are not allowed to post your opinion if it is negative". That is a stupid and unreasonable thing to say.

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In the contrast ...when you make smaller scenarios you ll understand better what are the girls’ priorities…

No, all you get is answers to an artificial unrealistic scenario.

Anyway, there is no need for this quizzing, the situation in real life is obvious: People ideally desire and will try to get BOTH inner and outer beauty.



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28 Aug 2006, 3:45 am

Cherokee wrote:
I don’t get it, why shouldn’t I analyze people in this forum?


You can analyze people as much as you want, although you should be aware that if a person reads/hears your analysis of them, and the analysis contains negative points, then some (many?) people will be offended. You may decide to do it anyway, depending on the situation. On the other hand, if the analysis is all positive, they will probably enjoy reading it.



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28 Aug 2006, 3:55 am

^^ I don't want any positive/negative analysis about me in this thread ..back to topic . You can create a thread to analyze users .

btw I agree with your conclusion