Polyamory.

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With any kind of polygamy things just get messy and can lead to family breakdowns and broken relationships.
Changes to the breading process can have knock-on effects. Just like prostitution in society can have negative
effects. But some people may it as innocently as purchasing a service.

Successful relationships are based on values like love, trust, cooperation, respect, dignity, honor, and sacrifice, and fidelity. Modern society, via propagation by the media, has basically thrown out these core values. Cheating has become so commonplace that now people are begining to accept it as societal norm rather than an anomally, and thus try to integrate it into modern romance as 'open relationships'. Sleeping with others, regardless of being 'open' or not is infidelity no matter how you slice it, consensual or not. Some in favour of polyamory will say that having multiple partners will strengthen their bonds with their partners. Humans are higher evolved animals, but we not evolved beyond jealousy, whether it's conscious or sub-conscious. In fact, because we are more evolved compared to other animals, we have abstract notions of jealous, love, control, possession, etc. I will conceed that humans evolved from a common ancestor with primates, which are not monoamory, but by participating in 'open relationships' or polyamory, or even accepting of such corrupt notions, you are admitting that we are nothing more than primitive life-forms. We are higher evolved organisms, are we not? Futhermore, the very idea that one can love more than person at a time is ridiculous. How can one ever feel that someone's feelings for them are geniune if they're being shared (more like commondeered) by others? How is that 'love' supposed to meaningful? It's funny. As the post said, we Aspies are generally counter-cultural. In developed countries, especially in America, it's now the culture to be polyamorous and not to be monoamorous. Most people these days are too lazy or too weak to put in the effort to make a monoamorous relationship work and it disgusts me. Polyamorism destroys values and harms decent, honest people who truly believe in real love. I know that I will be ridiculed for writting this, considering the majority of you believe in polyamorism, and I know it won't change your minds, but I justed wanted to prove, to the minority, that there is someone who will speak up for them. If it's something I've learned living in a representative democracy like the U.S., it's the majority ISN'T always right. Good day.

Kate, I do believe freedom and I know that NTs can be very narrow minded only accepting what the have been taught.

There are some concerns. Do you think polyamory relationship favour some types of people. Will it favour the coolest
members of the relationship in regard to reproduction, much the same way as polygamy. Polyamory may eventually become
polygamy as the low status man is no longer needed. You mention jealous people shouldn't join but it also quite a
coincidence that the most jealous are often low status man, I believe short men in particular well known to be jealous
and insecure.