Age gap relationships

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i prefer older.

Yay!

Wait a minute, you said "older" not "old" didn't you?

lolol. ahhh well 50 is the cut off point.

Yay!

I am currently attracted to a woman 20 years younger than me and she may be interested.It has very little to do with age ,it's kind of irrelevant since like many with AS I look significantly younger than my actual age.She is the mirror image of me as far as personality goes.She is very quiet ,usually won't say a thing in group situations ,seems to have sensory issues but is very intense.The attraction on my part has nothing to do with her actual age.Would it likely be easier if she was older ?Yes,but it's not an issue .

I seem to attract women who are a few years older than I. At the moment, for example, I have the makings of something interesting with a woman who is 28. My last girlfriend was also older than me.

I find I've been more accepted by people of my own age as I've grown older. I did once, at 16 years old, have a relationship with a 19 year old, though. That was fun

if im 23, whats the youngest person i should date?

obviously no younger than 18 (for legal reasons, and im really not attracted to girls younger than this anyways), but is this too young?

I think that's perfectly fine if she's not still in high-school. NOT that there's anything wrong with dating an 18year-old who's still in HS but it may be a little awkward & society may judge you more for it. Some say Aspies mental ages average a third less than their physical ages so if that's true in theory it should be acceptable for us to date people who are two thirds our physical ages

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I've dated four college professors.
Suffice it to say:
age is just a number to me.

i am stuck at a different age than my birth certificate. probably half the age. i feel more related to much younger people like my students when i was lecturing. i had much more in common with them than woman my own age. i never had the guts to initiate a relationship with any girl that age, being worried about giving the wrong impressions or signals.

needless to say that i have met several wonderful talented and very adorable and interesting potential partners, i would have been happy to be with… but unfortunately never did.

it is in fact rather common to observe young women being interested in the way ValentineWiggin describes has happened to her several times, and i find it vary brave of her to act upon it. i wish i had that courage…

maybe some other day.

oh, silly you!! !

I would prefer to go out with guys who are a little bit older. I don't really know why. I think it's because I felt that it was very hard to make any kind of friends who were my age and I was always talking to people who were older than me. Maybe that's why.

I once with out a guy who was 4 years younger than me and I told myself that I would never go out with anyone younger with me, and I was right. I hated being in that relationship. Thin my mind, I saw the guy as very immature and I felt very weird by that.

I've been in relationships in both directions (older and younger) and it's always been a non-issue in practice. It's just something you think about intellectually at first...

I only date older men. The biggest age gap was a man in his 40's when i was 19. My current boyfriend is only 6.5years older then me.

I have to date within five years of my age. Anything else feels creepy and wrong to me. Just my own personal bias, that follows me through life (ages as I age).