decent looking male aspies with NO job come in here.

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*hands over leash* take good care of him, mmkay?

Anyone who believes these two is naive beyond belief.

Yeah, you're right....unfortunately, "improving" myself is much easier said than done. Even if I do make myself attractive enough, I'm not touching American women with a 10-foot pole. I'll go somewhere else, thank you very much.

I would like to work ideally(I was working 55+ hours a week my last few months I worked at WalMart because my department was extremely shorthanded so I think I have some workaholic tendencies) but my employment options are extremely limited here. I recently decided to quit looking because of future plans o move in with Megz next summer. The long distance is kind of a pain rite now but totally worth it, I cant drive & live in a rural area that doesn't really have a public transportation system, the only thing I really have going for me here is my family. Megz lives in an apartment in a major college town that has a public transportation system so I would probably have better luck finding a job there & there's more social services/programs there that might be willing & able to help me with things to. I don't want to risk screwing up my disability by getting a job now because I think my disability income would be enough to cover the extra expenses there will be by her having a roommate & different social services & things may be more willing to help me find work or something if I'm on disability & Medicare. Also I've been improving my life in other areas lately & getting a job may take focus away from that. I know that a guy not working can contribute to money problems in a relationship & that the women may grow to kind of resent the guy because she may feel like she is required to do all the work so the guy doesn't have to do anything but there are other ways a guy can be useful in a relationship & key is to find out what those ways are & the rite women who appreciates it

I know how to bake, too! Yay!! I'll feed him and pet him every day.

and you have to ride him like a stallion in your six-inch heels every couple of days or he gets grumpy....

Ohhhh! I promise!! !

Actually there are cross cultural studies that coved both hunter gatherer and industrial societies where an overwhelming majority of females selected the wealth or potential to acquire wealth to be more important a factor in choosing a man than good looks or personality.

Oth, men chose good looks over wealth when choosing a woman.

Look up David Buss 37 cultures study.

Its not to say females are gold diggers but it is instinctive for them to not consider a male that will not have the means to support her offspring no matter how studly the guy can look like.

Hmm, this wasn't what I meant, I meant that views here are of minority, you won't meet much of them in real life. Also online sugar-coating isn't always real.

Gonna pock my dark brown eyes, brb.

No, it means he probably does not display the fact that he lives on his own and has good pay.

If he starts wearing good clothes (wear bussiness casual all the time rather than tshirts and jeans), invests in things like a nice car and home/apt And take time to find elegant (not necessarily expensive) places to take a girl to dinner as well as keep up with events he may take a girl to (theatre, concerts, etc) ....


he will see a noticeable improvement in how females perceive him. Girls dont normally initiate contact so he has to.

Its not to show off that he has money to splurge but rather that he is willing to invest in things. That to her says this guy is financially stable and comfortable spending and investing...which is one of the things all women really consider attractive in deciding whether to talk to or have a relationship with a guy.

actually, no. last i checked i am female, and it is not in any way a deciding criteria for me, nor do i find that attractive. i prefer men who can take care of me emotionally, and his money is just money (if he has any!). his earning potential is not a concern as i earn my own dollars.

Check again hyper, you might have some hidden penis somewhere.

aww no, she's allll woman.

I thought they can sprout like mushrooms, they do look alike.

and oh btw, WHY you are so sure she's alll woman?
hmmmm, can I join your game?

Then I must have one, too, because I believe the same as she. Yay! {runs off to buy pretty bows for hidden penis}

you still taste of bacon, right?