I'm pissed at everyone right now

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People have screwed up views. But they can change with experience.

If you are trying to get to the front of the 'screwed-up views' line I'm afraid you are a little late.

Is it just me or is this guy's spelling and grammar way too good for someone with only a 5th grade education?

Still, I otherwise feel the same way he does.

Being polite has nothing to do with it. Most of us would rather not risk being banned from WP for posting exactly how we feel about your complaints.

That's what I said. Looks like we agree on something. If this weren't such a serious subject, I'd almost be inclined to call this an elaborate hoax. Stranger things have happened on the interwebs.

PM them to me if you want. Whatever you have to say is true, and I've probably had worse things said to me.

Does it make me any less dumber that I paid attention to some elementary English classes? You people act like it's hard to learn how to capitalize, punctuate, where symbols go, etc.

You learn that stuff at a very young age.

um, thanks? Wanna a petit four?

nobody is hating you here, you're doing that for all of us.

and your attitude towards women is nothing unusual, and I wouldn't call it evil, it's just an error of judgement.

I seriously think that you should seek professional help - you sound unbalanced and you wave off any good advice that people here throw at you, over and over again. try some serious meds, they might just help, and they'll most definitely kill your libido.

Based on the number of people who don't do these things, and can't tell the difference between your and you're, I'd say a lot of people don't learn these things at a young age. Just admitting that you picked up on it early proves that you aren't stupid.

No thank you. That's just as good a way to get banned as posting in the open.

ok then

Look, do you want our help to get to a better place, or do you want us to hate and revile you? We can do either one. Pick.

I just want people to tell me that I'm a pathetic loser that has no hope of having friends and dating.

Just say that I'm a worthless excuse for a man, no one will ever respect me, and that I would be better off killing myself.

I've known college graduates who used them improperly lol.

Still, I'm pretty much in the same boat as MR20.....just better-educated...oh, and I don't watch anime or play video games. Like him, I'm tired of being told my negative attitude is the problem. Yeah, a negative attitude probably doesn't help things, but the underlying issues are our ugly looks and our lack of financial independence.

If you're so convinced you're a loser, why even ask our opinion?

I'll tell you why: Because deep down, you DON'T believe it. As bad as you've been treated, as poor as your luck has been, as many mistakes as you've made, part of you will not accept your fate., You tell us you want us to confirm what you already know, but what you really want is for someone to show you the way out. You don't want to end your life, you want to have the life you feel you deserve.

But turning everything around is hard. Unbelievably hard. You don't even know where to begin, and you know all too well what doesn't work. You see the same advice here over and over again, like "So just DO IT!" and "Make a change" and "See a doctor" and maybe it's good advice and maybe not but all you know how to do is shoot ideas down in your head because you KNOW how it'd really turn out if you tried any of it.

And that's what it all comes down to: You'd rather give up than try and fail. Because inside you, way down deep, is a little glimmer of hope that tells you that you COULD turn everything around, if you just tried the right thing. And you feel like trying and failing would be a hundred times worse than not trying at all, because if you try and fail then that last bit of hope that keeps you alive would be gone.

It won't. It'll still be there. It's OK to try and fail. It's OK to have do-overs. It's OK to put everything on the line for what you really want. All it takes is for you to change ONE thing. Just one. Any small thing in your power to make different. Start there. You'll see what I mean.

Not long ago I would've written the same thing. I still occasionally feel this way, though that feeling grows less and less each day.

You know what my solution has been? I don't give all those people, whether they are actual people who rejected me, or imagined people who I haven't yet encountered, the victory of having a place in my head, of living there "rent free" as the saying goes. I don't give a f**k about them. I just don't care. I have learned to care, first and foremost, about myself, and to take control.

You've got to BELIEVE in yourself. BELIEVE you are good enough. BELIEVE that others should meet YOUR standards, not the other way around. Girls who rejected me years ago...you know what they are doing now? They're drones, who married fratboy dips**ts, and are crapping out babies and they're dead. Utterly dead. I thank god I didn't wind up with those wastes of flesh.

I'm fully prepared to wait until the girl who meets MY standards comes my way, and if she doesn't, that's fine too. Because I've learned to be contented with what I've got. I've got my health, I'm finding success in my work, I've got time to pursue my projects as a filmmaker, and once a woman enters into that, and demands my time and my money, all that is gone. I'm never giving up who I am for no one. I'm happy for the first time, because I've accepted who I am, and that I don't need ANYONE for my happiness. People who rely on others to be happy are quite pathetic, and wind up even more miserable specimens when those around them inevitably die.

Now, it sounds like you've got self esteem issues, and those are vital to transcend to attain self satisfaction and happiness. It is good to change, to improve onesself, assuming you do it for YOU, not for any old harpy off the street. Loose weight because it is healthy, and you will feel good. Trust me, nothing beats hammering out a good 6 or 8 miler, like I do every day. Nothing beats seeing your body change, and knowing you have control. It's all about control. I wasn't satsifed with my muscle mass in my arms. So I've started doing pushups every day. I force myself at first, now it's routine. And I'm starting to get some toning! I was also concerned I was a few pounds over my ideal weight for my height, so I cut out the ice cream from my diet, began substituting fatty things for healthy things...just a few minor changes, and over time I've started to get nice and trim, and man can I scream on the track or the road race. Doing these things will build confidence, self control, self determination.

And keep trying at dating. Fake being happy and confident. Do what you can, and try to score one win. that's all you need. I had a horrible dry spell...my whole life I never got past the first date. Then I met a girl and we went out three times. Granted, after that I haven't heard from her, but I learned long ago women are flaky, fickle creatures, and I realized I was wasting my time dating, when I had so many more important things to accomplish than simply living the same ole narrative: date, marry, crap out kids, die. f**k that. That's for the sheeple. I'm BETTER. And you can be too. Why do you want to be like all of them anyway?

But try to get that first success, as i did. Because it will prove to you in your mind you are capable of dating. Then you will see if you want it to continue. For me, I realized I didn't care to date, because dating leads to marriage, which I consider prison, and sex, which I regard as disgusting and bestial. At least I know I CAN date, which is enough. I am content now, and I go on, and say, "f**k the rest, I don't need them."

Live for YOU, and NO ONE ELSE. DON'T let these figments, those hormones control you and ruin your life. YOU control your life. TAKE CONTROL. NEVER GIVE IT UP, NOT FOR ANYONE.