12 Oct 2011, 5:24 pm
Todesking wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
It's weird.. why the f*** would someone do that. She sounds mentally ret*d.
She might like yanking her boyfriend's chain or she might even likes to weatch her boyfriend beat up some random dude. I worked with a waitress who would flirt with random guys at bars so her boyfriend would beat the smaller guy up until she got her boyfriend cut up with a straight razzor. Everyone in the bar knew the cutter so they kept their lips sealed and he was left with massive hospital bills so she dumped him and bragged to everyone at work about dumping him.
Some people are trash. 
Now that is messed up. But I don't understand people who act interested in dating others for the means of humiliating the latter. It's common for school girls, but in reality it's a form of bullying.
12 Oct 2011, 8:57 pm
hyperlexian wrote:
Alienboy wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
here's my point of view. she felt like you followed her from class and she was rather freaked out. she was worried you would not leave her alone so she gave you a fake number or her bf's number to get you away from her ASAP. if there were not a lot of people around this could especially be the case and she may have been worried for her safety. the fact you are now considering taking revenge really reinforces that idea. whatever the case, just walk away. she is not interested in you.
OK like I mentioned before. Right after she mentioned that she already had a bf I stopped hitting on her, BUT then she went out of her way to give me her bf's number. That is my point. She wasn't fearing for her life. She was just awkward and then decided ok I'm going to be a b**** to this guy after he showed obvious signs that he doesn't continue to hit on girls that have bf's. So yeah, your point of view is missing a few key elements. So me wanting revenge before(I'm over it now) is somehow strange in response to someone giving you their bf's number and having the nerve to say "We will see what happens."...? What is wrong with you?
right, so you are failing to notice that multiple people happened to also think that my explanation could possibly be a decent idea of what happened. there's nothing wrong with me lol
you approached her in a parking lot (or was it... a parkade? if it was, that's just too scary
) and chatted her up. it would have looked like you followed her, even if you actually didn't. now, whether or not any sort of rapes, murders and kidnappings actually happen with any frequency in parking lots is irrelevant - women have a great deal of fear about it (there's even an urban legend in there somewhere).when she said she hd a boyfriend and you suddenly stopped, she may have been worried of what would happen next. you didn't say that you walked away and were halfway across the parking lot; from the story you told, you essentially froze in your tracks, which is distinctly different from sauntering away or saying, "hey that's cool, have a great day!". this is the point when a person who feels themselves to be in potential danger has a panicky moment as your next move is unknown. for myself in such a situation, i've found that i try to do something to appease the person. it usually works (i mean... you left).
there are other possible interpretations, sure. i doubt she would seek to intentionally hurt or embarrass you unless she was very upset with something you did. and according to your story you didn't do anything to anger her, so it's not a likely scenario. she could actually have a jealous boyfriend who is screening her calls, of course. or she might be insane. hard to say, but my theory is based on the information you provided and on my own personal experiences.
Ok perhaps I explained things inaccurately. I didn't mean I literally froze up suddenly and was worrying oh no she foiled my plan to rape her. I just mean as soon as she said she had a bf I stopped walking with her and said oh ok that is ok bye and after I said bye and started to walk away she actually stopped me and said: "Well...we will see what happens." Then she pulled out her cell phone and gave me her number. She might have thought I was some creepy guy or rapist just because I was hitting on her in a parking lot who knows. Fact is I am not that and she misunderstood and went a little too far. It was strange because when I typed her name in my phone(Alana), she actually said oh wow you spelled my name right...most people spell it wrong. That is really strange that she would act friendly and say something like this while she is in the process of giving me a number that is not hers. I am already over her and I will not be hitting on her or even looking in her general direction from now on. I also wanted to mention that I only pretended to be a girl to get back at the girl because if the guy started hitting on me via text thinking I was a girl...I could use that a proof of his infidelity to the girl as a way to get back at her. Don't worry though. I will not do this. This was just something I thought up shortly after the event occurred because I was just angry. For the record, I don't think all women are evil...I hope that nobody was accusing me of thinking this. Anyway, I just hope this girl doesn't actually want me to fight her boyfriend. I will just stay away from her and say nothing. No point in telling her what she did to me was wrong...I am assuming she knows since not all women are completely heartless.
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