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12 Nov 2011, 11:30 am

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Look, ANYONE who sleeps around (male OR female) are sinners that lack self-control and morals. We are not animals.

Sex is something that should be between two married people that lover each other, (gays included) not in a gangbang with 3-5 "rockstars" or a 4some with 3 bi-sexual half-drunk chicks you just met in a club.


And who the f**k do you think you are to tell people what they can or cant do? Or to make fun of what others have posted on this website?


I'm not telling anyone to do anything. These are just my opinions. As for your next quote, I have no idea what you are talking about.



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12 Nov 2011, 11:31 am

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Sex is something that should be between two married people that lover each other, (gays included) not in a gangbang with 3-5 "rockstars" or a 4some with 3 bi-sexual half-drunk chicks you just met in a club.

Ouch, that stops well before the midgets in Thousand Island dressing. I might need to go play chess with myself later. :cry:


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12 Nov 2011, 11:36 am

MR20 wrote:
MXH wrote:
MR20 wrote:
Look, ANYONE who sleeps around (male OR female) are sinners that lack self-control and morals. We are not animals.

Sex is something that should be between two married people that lover each other, (gays included) not in a gangbang with 3-5 "rockstars" or a 4some with 3 bi-sexual half-drunk chicks you just met in a club.


And who the f**k do you think you are to tell people what they can or cant do? Or to make fun of what others have posted on this website?


I'm not telling anyone to do anything. These are just my opinions. As for your next quote, I have no idea what you are talking about.


LOL. Simply doing the whole church thing and telling them theyll be damned in eternity for being sinners. Deffinetly not telling them to do nothing. Also, dont play stupid with me and think you'll get far. you know very well who you are ridiculing in that post otherwise you would not have made that reference.



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12 Nov 2011, 11:38 am

This thread is going offtopic and you are starting to attack each other which isnt allowed here.

If things dont change on the following posts we are going to have to lock it at least temporarily until you can discuss things on a more appropriate manner


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12 Nov 2011, 11:43 am

MXH wrote:
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Look, ANYONE who sleeps around (male OR female) are sinners that lack self-control and morals. We are not animals.

Sex is something that should be between two married people that lover each other, (gays included) not in a gangbang with 3-5 "rockstars" or a 4some with 3 bi-sexual half-drunk chicks you just met in a club.


And who the f**k do you think you are to tell people what they can or cant do? Or to make fun of what others have posted on this website?


I'm not telling anyone to do anything. These are just my opinions. As for your next quote, I have no idea what you are talking about.


LOL. Simply doing the whole church thing and telling them theyll be damned in eternity for being sinners. Deffinetly not telling them to do nothing.

Half the people here doesn't even believe anyway. They probably wouldn't give a f**k about the things that I said. I'm just stating my opinion

Also, dont play stupid with me and think you'll get far. you know very well who you are ridiculing in that post otherwise you would not have made that reference.

What in the world are you on about? I haven't made fun of anyone, and I if I did I didn't do it intentionally.




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12 Nov 2011, 11:50 am

MR20 wrote:
MXH wrote:
MR20 wrote:
MXH wrote:
MR20 wrote:
Look, ANYONE who sleeps around (male OR female) are sinners that lack self-control and morals. We are not animals.

Sex is something that should be between two married people that lover each other, (gays included) not in a gangbang with 3-5 "rockstars" or a 4some with 3 bi-sexual half-drunk chicks you just met in a club.


And who the f**k do you think you are to tell people what they can or cant do? Or to make fun of what others have posted on this website?


I'm not telling anyone to do anything. These are just my opinions. As for your next quote, I have no idea what you are talking about.


LOL. Simply doing the whole church thing and telling them theyll be damned in eternity for being sinners. Deffinetly not telling them to do nothing.

Half the people here doesn't even believe anyway. They probably wouldn't give a f**k about the things that I said. I'm just stating my opinion

Also, dont play stupid with me and think you'll get far. you know very well who you are ridiculing in that post otherwise you would not have made that reference.

What in the world are you on about? I haven't made fun of anyone one, and I if I did I didn't do it intentionally.




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Does it matter if they do or dont believe? What gave you the right to come into here and demonize people with other life choices to yours?

What am I about? your little rockstar reference and the girls at the club reference go in part with some stories ive heard from members here in WP. So cut your crap already



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12 Nov 2011, 12:01 pm

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What am I about? your little rockstar reference and the girls at the club reference go in part with some stories ive heard from members here in WP. So cut your crap already


I haven't seen any stories about gangbangs or bi-sexual 4somes on here. (regular 3somes maybe) Bottom is that I wasn't just singling out one person.



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12 Nov 2011, 12:05 pm

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I'm of the opinion that 'morals' are very subjective...as far as 'sleeping around' is concerned, I have a moral code of my own that may or may not bear any resemblance to the social norm, but as long as I stick to that code I don't feel guilty or bad about it.

As long as you're not knowingly and willingly hurting or upsetting someone else in the name of your own happiness, I don't see a problem. I personally wouldn't engage in promiscuity, but as long as the parties involved in it aren't causing hurt or upset, I don't see a reason to disapprove. No victim, no crime and all that.

Of course, reality is far more complicated than this, but judging someone else is something I try my damndest to avoid. Simply put, my morals are subjective and are not absolutes. I'd feel VERY unhappy about imposing them on someone else.


Yeah society doesn't feel that way now does it? It views sex as a normal act that people regularly participate in. If you're not then it means somethings wrong with you, you're a loser, or you're unattractive.

Either way most people view you as a outsider if you're not banging everything in site.



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12 Nov 2011, 12:06 pm

MR20 wrote:
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What am I about? your little rockstar reference and the girls at the club reference go in part with some stories ive heard from members here in WP. So cut your crap already


I haven't seen any stories about gangbangs or bi-sexual 4somes on here. (regular 3somes maybe) Bottom is that I wasn't just singling out one person.


the odds that you coincidentally get the exact number of "rockstars" to what the person posted are so slim that it leads me to believe you're just trying to defend yourself. But youve done this kind of stuff before so whos to say it wont be repeated.

Before you jump and try to play the victim, make sure the cause of playing victim wasnt by putting others down.



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12 Nov 2011, 12:17 pm

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I could have easily warned women about the dangers of hooking up with men of such character, however that is a record that has been played over and over continuously throughout history. I decided to put a warning out to men specifically upon reading this article because I feel men are under represented as victims. A man can be taken advantage of and victimized just as easily as a woman, particularly men with AS.

Can not a person raise awareness of legitimate mens issues without being accused of possessing sexist views? I think it's more of a double standard to ignore mens issues.

I will re-iterate. Men, if a woman seems too good to be true, she probably is.


This is all perfectly fair, and perfectly wise. But it's NOT what you said. You said that women who are "easy" are probably psychos. Not just potentially, but probably. Labeling a sexually interested woman as 'easy' is insulting to begin with, but then to throw 'psycho' onto her as well... :roll: I realize that your heart is in the right place, but the messages is a hot mess.

And just so's you know, I'm not just your promiscuous woman going off the deep end out of personal offense. If had a trillion dollars for every encounter I've had in the last few years, I wouldn't be able to put a dent in the national debt. But when you take some anecdotal shock article from the Huff P and present it as evidence that sexually active/adventurous women are crazipants, do you honestly not expect to be on the receiving end if some anger? Really, boys? Cuz that's not fair.



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12 Nov 2011, 12:20 pm

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as far as 'sleeping around' is concerned


It happens far less than people would have you believe.

More common is cheating emotionally, which is kind of a gray area. Assuming a person has a relationship with someone else.



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12 Nov 2011, 12:22 pm

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I could have easily warned women about the dangers of hooking up with men of such character, however that is a record that has been played over and over continuously throughout history. I decided to put a warning out to men specifically upon reading this article because I feel men are under represented as victims. A man can be taken advantage of and victimized just as easily as a woman, particularly men with AS.

Can not a person raise awareness of legitimate mens issues without being accused of possessing sexist views? I think it's more of a double standard to ignore mens issues.

I will re-iterate. Men, if a woman seems too good to be true, she probably is.


This is all perfectly fair, and perfectly wise. But it's NOT what you said. You said that women who are "easy" are probably psychos. Not just potentially, but probably. Labeling a sexually interested woman as 'easy' is insulting to begin with, but then to throw 'psycho' onto her as well... :roll: I realize that your heart is in the right place, but the messages is a hot mess.

And just so's you know, I'm not just your promiscuous woman going off the deep end out of personal offense. If had a trillion dollars for every encounter I've had in the last few years, I wouldn't be able to put a dent in the national debt. But when you take some anecdotal shock article from the Huff P and present it as evidence that sexually active/adventurous women are crazipants, do you honestly not expect to be on the receiving end if some anger? Really, boys? Cuz that's not fair.


You do know that Chronos is a chick... right?



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12 Nov 2011, 12:23 pm

Everyone, please take a timeout and calm down.

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12 Nov 2011, 12:25 pm

MR20 wrote:
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I could have easily warned women about the dangers of hooking up with men of such character, however that is a record that has been played over and over continuously throughout history. I decided to put a warning out to men specifically upon reading this article because I feel men are under represented as victims. A man can be taken advantage of and victimized just as easily as a woman, particularly men with AS.

Can not a person raise awareness of legitimate mens issues without being accused of possessing sexist views? I think it's more of a double standard to ignore mens issues.

I will re-iterate. Men, if a woman seems too good to be true, she probably is.


This is all perfectly fair, and perfectly wise. But it's NOT what you said. You said that women who are "easy" are probably psychos. Not just potentially, but probably. Labeling a sexually interested woman as 'easy' is insulting to begin with, but then to throw 'psycho' onto her as well... :roll: I realize that your heart is in the right place, but the messages is a hot mess.

And just so's you know, I'm not just your promiscuous woman going off the deep end out of personal offense. If had a trillion dollars for every encounter I've had in the last few years, I wouldn't be able to put a dent in the national debt. But when you take some anecdotal shock article from the Huff P and present it as evidence that sexually active/adventurous women are crazipants, do you honestly not expect to be on the receiving end if some anger? Really, boys? Cuz that's not fair.


You do know that Chronos is a chick... right?

Her gender is unimportant
She was offended by what Chronos said and she has explained why without attacking her, she has every right to do so.

You may now throw the double standards thing out of the window and start looking for something else that makes you look like a victim


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