deconstruction wrote:
I'm hesitant to say anything to MR20 because he doesn't listen to the advice. He seems like a person who wants others to feel sorry for him (I don't hate him for this; my mother is like that and she's a NT), so I know it's virtually impossible to make these people feel better even if you tell them you understand their struggles. (And since this is an Aspie forum, I doubt people don't understand MR20's troubles).
Like I already said, he talks so bad about him and he's actually a quite eloquent man. You know how some people don't know how to represent themselves when they write? They make many grammar and spelling mistakes, they write disjointed sentences... It doesn't mean they're bad or stupid people, but they don't present themselves in the best light.
Not MR20. His writing presents him as an intelligent and an eloquent person. The writing I mean, not the content of said writing. That's what I find it a bit strange, to have such an opposition between the context and the way it's written.
Just come out and say it and stop with the snide comments. I know I'm stupid and a bit slow, It's not the first time by a long shot that I've heard that.
What I hate is when people try to mask the insults as compliments. Such as "you not as stupid as you look" or "you're not as dumb as I thought you were" or what you just said above.