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Is this woman for real??
Yes, go for it!! 33%  33%  [ 18 ]
Yes, go for it!! 33%  33%  [ 18 ]
No, run for your life!! 17%  17%  [ 9 ]
No, run for your life!! 17%  17%  [ 9 ]
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en_una_isla
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07 Oct 2006, 6:17 pm

How are things going with her scrapheap?



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07 Oct 2006, 6:23 pm

sociable_hermit wrote:
Scrapheap:

You're single now, right? And presumably feeling a bit fed up with it?

So what's the worst that can happen?

PROVIDED she's not a bunny-boiler, the worst that can happen is that in a couple of months you'll be single and a bit fed up again. In other words, no worse off. In actual fact, you'll also be wiser and will probably have had some fun in the process.

It's the "PROVIDED" bit we need to work on. Take your time. Get to know what she's really like. Maybe introduce her to some of your friends or family and see how she gets on with them. Afterwards you can ask them what they think of her, too.

Remember, this is a 'worst case' scenario. Things could turn out a whole lot better :)


You're probably right. I should quit being cynical/suspicious. I'm just thinking that because she's a bit "out of my league" that there has to be some kind of catch. I'm now thinking that she's for real the catch being that she is a bit messed up in the head and has special "needs".


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07 Oct 2006, 6:26 pm

en_una_isla wrote:
How are things going with her scrapheap?

Had out 4th date. I actually took her and her 17yr old daughter out for dinner. We then went back to her place and watched a movie. Her daughter got tired after about half an hour and left us alone. We made out a little during the movie. After it was over, things went all the way.

Now I'm just a bit nervous that she was'nt impressed.


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07 Oct 2006, 6:59 pm

Scrapheap wrote:
en_una_isla wrote:
How are things going with her scrapheap?

Had out 4th date. I actually took her and her 17yr old daughter out for dinner. We then went back to her place and watched a movie. Her daughter got tired after about half an hour and left us alone. We made out a little during the movie. After it was over, things went all the way.


well done.

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Now I'm just a bit nervous that she was'nt impressed.

being nervous won't help anything


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12 Oct 2006, 4:50 am

I don't buy it defo bunny boiler.



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24 Dec 2006, 3:50 pm

[quote="BazzaMcKenzie"] so long as she is not a hillbilly goth [quote]

You got Hillybilly Goths? Grrlz in black overalls? Do they kill chickens by biting their haids off?

Is her hearse up on blocks?


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29 Dec 2006, 3:25 pm

Have you been out on any more dates with her?
She sounds like a total mess but anything can happen in a relationship.








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01 Jan 2007, 12:59 pm

Date her, see if she can sort her past and feelings out.



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01 Jan 2007, 3:35 pm

Scrapheap wrote:
You're probably right. I should quit being cynical/suspicious. I'm just thinking that because she's a bit "out of my league" that there has to be some kind of catch. I'm now thinking that she's for real the catch being that she is a bit messed up in the head and has special "needs".


If you haven't entirely made your mind up, I have but one question. Ever seen One Night at McCool's? That would be your abslolute worst case scenario. If you haven't seen it, worth the rental if nothing else.

If you are yin and yang, then she the instability to your stability. You willing to deal with the ups and downs of that? You may have seen the "good" so far, but its possible you haven't seen any of the bad. If you're ok with that, then yeah, the advice so far to "go with it" is great. If not, then don't get wrapped up in this. From your description of the fourth date, so far so good at this rate.

As for the whole "out of my league," ultimately that's not a decision that's up to you. Your opinion on whether or not she's out of your league will have nothing to do with her making decisions regarding you. Well, unless you talk about it constantly in front of her, then she'll get annoyed and possibly start believing you.