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23 Dec 2011, 11:05 pm

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Dragons exist. I have one sleeping in a terrarium right now. :D
I'm not talking about real dragons. I'm talking about imaginary dragons. Sheesh!


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23 Dec 2011, 11:09 pm

You mean... bigger ones don't go flying around shooting fire out of their mouths? :o


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23 Dec 2011, 11:10 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
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"soulmate" is such an odd concept to me. I'd probably run if I found someone that matched such a description.

And by run, I mean away from them. :oops:

Is it bad that I'd want to get married the moment I felt that way about someone


We're all different. TBH, I'd be waiting for the sh** to hit the fan. Perfection = fake, if you as me.

Very true. I don't think of a soul-mate as being perfect but I think of her as being the perfect person for me even thou she has non perfect qualities; not sure if this makes sense :?


That's what I meant by perfect, actually. I may have trust issues, though. Every time I've met someone that seemed perfect for me, I thought "They can't be telling the truth. What are they hiding?"

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Oh I get it now my bad. I never thought anyone was perfect for me when I 1st met them but I started feeling that way both times after I had gotten to know them a while. It was a gradual thing & NOT a magical moment with love at 1st sight like in the movies. By the time I realized I was feeling like that about em I was so far gone that I really would of eloped with them if they would of wanted to & if wouldn't of been impractical due to financial rezones


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23 Dec 2011, 11:11 pm

Ok. Let's just say imaginary turtles then...


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23 Dec 2011, 11:14 pm

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Ok. Let's just say imaginary turtles then...

Are you talking about the kind that work for King Bowser


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23 Dec 2011, 11:16 pm

Kenjuudo wrote:
Ok. Let's just say imaginary turtles then...


That works. :D


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23 Dec 2011, 11:18 pm

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Oh I get it now my bad. I never thought anyone was perfect for me when I 1st met them but I started feeling that way both times after I had gotten to know them a while. It was a gradual thing & NOT a magical moment with love at 1st sight like in the movies. By the time I realized I was feeling like that about em I was so far gone that I really would of eloped with them if they would of wanted to & if wouldn't of been impractical due to financial rezones


Ack. No marriage for me. Been there, not for me. A long term relationship would be nice, though, if there's someone I think is worth it.


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23 Dec 2011, 11:20 pm

nick007 wrote:
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Ok. Let's just say imaginary turtles then...

Are you talking about the kind that work for King Bowser
The turtles ever did any work for Bowser? Be real!


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23 Dec 2011, 11:57 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
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Oh I get it now my bad. I never thought anyone was perfect for me when I 1st met them but I started feeling that way both times after I had gotten to know them a while. It was a gradual thing & NOT a magical moment with love at 1st sight like in the movies. By the time I realized I was feeling like that about em I was so far gone that I really would of eloped with them if they would of wanted to & if wouldn't of been impractical due to financial rezones


Ack. No marriage for me. Been there, not for me. A long term relationship would be nice, though, if there's someone I think is worth it.

I'd want to be married so there will be an official commitment because I start thinking of us as a married couple 1ce we both think there is long term potential. I'm a hopeless romantic, literally hopeless or maybe I mean helpless, it's probably a bit of both


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24 Dec 2011, 12:08 am

Being a romantic isn't so bad. At least you don't claim you're a psychopath. :roll:


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24 Dec 2011, 12:33 am

There's nothing wrong with being a romantic. I'm just not.


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24 Dec 2011, 12:48 am

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Being a romantic isn't so bad. At least you don't claim you're a psychopath. :roll:

I used to call myself a psycho years ago when I was very frustrated about things, depressed & didn't understand my AS issues & other things about myself as much. I've come a long way.

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There's nothing wrong with being a romantic. I'm just not.

I know. That kewl. Being romantic can be a problem when you strongly deisre to be but don't have anyone to be romantic with or have problems showing/expressing romance, have no creativity at all & are too logical & practical to be interested in the cliche stuff like lighting candles or buying cards.


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24 Dec 2011, 1:11 am

I'm not a romantic either. At least not intentionally. But no matter how boring and ignorant I try to be, I somehow just vacuum a lot of female attention.

One theory I have, is that most women are not used to being treated as equals and friends from the start - with not even an opportunity to start a flirt. You'd be hard pressed to even catch me grab a glance of somebody's physiological protrusions. In fact, sometimes, people may jump to the conclusion that I'd be gay or just extremely blasé and experienced (LOL!). I don't see how come either, because I ignore men exactly as much and in the exact same way. (hence why I treat everybody as equals). I am actually able to, extremely theatrically, avoid physical contact like if strangers all around me all carried some extremely contagious disease (which most do btw. it's called stupidity, and it's contagious as hell).


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