Gerrit wrote:
It started in June. We met in a Dutch asperger chatroom. We talked a lot in the chatroom, in private and on MSN, and then we phoned each other for hours and hours. She said many sweet things, including sexual things. I went on holiday. So did she. We said that we were really really going to miss each other. The whole holiday I looked forward to meeting up with her shortly after the holiday. For six weeks I longed for her, both romantically and sexually. Shortly after the holiday, she sent a mail saying: "I will soon meet the new big love in my life, and it's not you". She'd met another guy in the same chatroom inbetween. So I got really disappointed, because she was not going to be a love for me after all. Later she said that she had found me irritating all the time from the start. I got really sad. Later still she said that she still found me sweet and that we were going to meet up. We did meet up. She came to my place. I very much enjoyed her visit. At the end of the day we cuddled. I wanted more, but she didn't. And she didn't really have attention for me. She was chatting with two guys that she fancied while I was cuddling with her. I wanted to be more intimate with her than just cuddling. She knew that, it was obvious from my body. I knew that she didn't want it and I respected her limits, however hard it was. So then we said goodbye. Later, she said, "I didn't feel anything during the cuddling, I felt nothing". I got sad, because I thought that she had enjoyed it too. And a week ago she went further with saying mean things. Two weeks before she visited me, she had visited the other guy that I mentioned. She told me: "he paid my railway ticket to visit him and got something in return. You did not pay my railway ticket for me". I got mad and said, don't say that kind of things to me. A few minutes later she went even further. She said: "you're just frustated because I had sex with him and not with you". I've ignored and blocked her since she said that. I don't want to talk with her.

Sounds she was seriously f****d up mentally, don't worry it was not because of anything you did. Just try and not take it too personally, get on with life and hope better luck next time.