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Wolfheart
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12 Feb 2012, 1:37 pm

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Well the impression I got was that he did.......but never mind that I guess. But yeah if he's not into me that's cool I'd just like to know cause i thought we had something going on but if not I'd like to move on and put it behind me. So all I can do now is try not to stress about it too much.


Maybe he was initially but circumstances can change, some men like a challenge, once he decided that you posed no challenge to him, he may have lost interest. Anyway sounds like the best decision is to move on, you don't want someone that isn't direct or honest, it's just going to leave you with feelings of uncertainty and insecurity.



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12 Feb 2012, 1:43 pm

Wolfheart wrote:
Sweetleaf wrote:
Well the impression I got was that he did.......but never mind that I guess. But yeah if he's not into me that's cool I'd just like to know cause i thought we had something going on but if not I'd like to move on and put it behind me. So all I can do now is try not to stress about it too much.


Maybe he was initially but circumstances can change, some men like a challenge, once he decided that you posed no challenge to him, he may have lost interest. Anyway sounds like the best decision is to move on, you don't want someone that isn't direct or honest, it's just going to leave you with feelings of uncertainty and insecurity.


Meh that is not how he came off, and there is still the possibility he's just trying to get whatever it was bothering him taken care of......so I don't want to jump to conclusions yet. It's just frustrating not knowing what exactly is going on but Im going to try not to dwell on it and just see what happens.


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21 Feb 2012, 11:39 pm

Well I have my answer.......no I am not f*cking impatient, it's bs for a dude to tell me hes going to contact me again and then not. But whatever I'll text him either a little later or tommorow and ask him what the f*ck is going on but I won't say it/text it like that. But seriously I'm f*cking sick of this always happening to me no matter how much I feel there was a connection or whatever. I just hope he's got a reason for this because I am kinda pissed but I cannot wait any longer to ask him what the deal is.


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