Please! Show me how I am a crazy B&^^tch! Just believ in
This woman is AMAZING!! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !!
This is exactly what I was trying to say..... about how positive attracts positive etc...... <3
Wow So inspiring to REmember, and be REminded......
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tg7DtfY8 ... mUU5t_tBbB
Who_Am_I wrote:
So stop cleaning up the consequences. Let him experience the results of his own actions.
This a million times. People will continue to do rotten things until they realize their actions have consequences and have to face them!
I hope things work out... they're sure unhealthy right now! If he can't change, maybe he'll need to be on his own for a while - especially if he doesn't contribue anything at all. He'll have to learn to at least take care of himself!
myth wrote:
BTW: I'm not someone with a "Eh we disagree... leave him" attitude. I've always thought that ANYTHING could be worked out if two people tried hard enough.
Thank you for that - too many people almost ENJOY ending relationships at the first sign of trouble, and if it's someone else they'll take deep pleasure in getting her to dump him! The pleasure should be in making and maintaining relationships - not destroying them!
Still... some people never change and sometimes distance or separation is truly necessary. It doesn't have to be the end though...
BlueMax wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
So stop cleaning up the consequences. Let him experience the results of his own actions.
This a million times. People will continue to do rotten things until they realize their actions have consequences and have to face them!
I hope things work out... they're sure unhealthy right now! If he can't change, maybe he'll need to be on his own for a while - especially if he doesn't contribue anything at all. He'll have to learn to at least take care of himself!
Yes, it is long over now.
I was just reading through the whole history of the relationship and realized I was trying to get away after only being with the person for a month, it was laready that bad, lol...
Well, I think I have learned what I DO NOT want, and that people don't change, and to listen to red flags from day one, and no matter how much it hurts kick em out right away next time!
A lot of the problem back then was that I was in the city and didnt have any of my friends to help.
Since I have been home it has been a wake up call, and my friends have helped me firmly but gently see things for the way they really were and undid the brainwashing to hel me be set free.
It is amaizing how fast you can start to get your joy back.

