Adam82 wrote:
rabbittss wrote:
JanuaryMan wrote:
People can't go 10 minutes without being angry sad and bitter in this place lol
Come on, back to the topic!
That's because for some of us, we have had so many failures, so often, these attitudes are all we are familiar with.
This. It's hard not to be cynical after all you've experienced, in terms of romance, is rejection after rejection. One or two rejections happens to everyone. But if you get rejected CONSTANTLY and are nearly 30, and have never had a GF, clearly something is very wrong.
Woah man, keep your voice down, or else the usual suspects will descend and tell us it's all our own faults, again. See that is the thing, we, as men, are supposed to, ney, obligated, to look below the surface whenever we see a woman, be she morbidly obese, or purple polkadotted, and see the glorious Venus, aching to be loved by us, lurking beneath. If we don't do this, we are misogynistic bigots. However, if Women we are actually interested in enough to approach sense we are bitter or negative, they are perfectly justified in not wanting anything to do with us. They are under no obligation to give us a second chance, or look for our positives, after all, if we really wanted a girlfriend, we'd be more apt to look beneath the surface of those girls we claim we aren't interested in.
Since we aren't, it obviously means it's all our own faults we don't have girlfriends, and this of course has nothing to do with the other side of the societal coin. That being the one where guys are supposed to be large, domineering alpha personalities with a take charge jaw and a can do attitude.. just as much as women are supposed to be svelte and shapely and look good with no clothes on.