Problem speaking to women

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It's a biological fact that women are more sensitive which is what makes them women.

Well, in relation to this why would you want a woman stuff, 'my' aspie I was talking to yesterday pointed out how he has trouble dealing with my emotional and sensitive side but that he knows that even if he wasn't an Aspie men and women tend to differ in this way anyhow. It's a biological fact that women are more sensitive which is what makes them women. So if you like women for whatever reason this is what comes with the package. And in general for biological and social reasons men tend to be put off by too much emotion and like their space, whether they are on the Spectrum or not. So it's about reaching a happy medium and accepting the fact that women are different I guess. And don't forget that opposites can attract. But maybe it would be easier to find a woman who does have more Aspie type traits if this is a big issue. In relation to your video, might I suggest without offending you that I personally would consider your attractions enhanced if you took off the hat? I would also suggest that the flag, while it is a symbol to be proud of, is somewhat intimidating in the background? I hope I'm not crossing the line making those suggestions, and I suppose other women would receive different impressions to me. You seem like a really nice and good-looking man so I wish you all luck in your quest.

My fiance is very, very, very sensitive. He has all of the feminine styles of communicating and I have all of the masculine (not ALL, but most of what will be brought up in an interpersonal communications class). He was emotionally sensitive his entire childhood.

And call it me being full of Asperger's, but he wants WAY more attention from me than I want from him. I don't think it's the 'perger's, either. Ask my NT roommates. I had every intention of leaving him because I just couldn't take it and needed more space and independence, but because he loves me he was willing to work on it.

Lesson #1: Never mention the word "fat" in any context within 100 yards of a woman.

I would confirm, It isn't the AS. It was the same with my ex-husband (both of us NTs). I finally did move out (only 4 blocks away), and he was willing to work on it, for a while. But being the more "feminine" of the pair, emotionally, deeply threatened his manhood. And having to constantly shore up his ego exhausted me. Eventually he spotted something shiny and basically abandoned me.

Yeah, I stand corrected Senath! You're right, there's more diversity in the world than just stereotypes of male and female. Diverse identities too so maybe one doesn't need to try and appeal to the 'typical' female in order to date successfully. Keep the flag up, Aussie man : )

My fiance is very, very, very sensitive. He has all of the feminine styles of communicating and I have all of the masculine (not ALL, but most of what will be brought up in an interpersonal communications class).

Women are pretty easy for me to talk to. Their are more women in my family then men. So growing up with mostly women it's easy for me to talk with women. Since I grew up with a lot of women.

Oi! There same in my family too. Lot of women in my family and of course I am used to talking to women because I have lot of cousins are female, aunts and one sister.

This actually going to prove I am so right. Women in general who react to things are unintentional actions are appears to be immature, aggressive and not happy.

Depends on their personality and how they handle things.