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>>>What occurred to you: "his original post"

What occurred to me: "before his original post", "his original post" , "the young ladies posts" "how I would feel in his situation"


if thats the case....why on page 1 did i say....'after she prolly hurt ur feelings' etc.....does this not indicate i was also taking into account what could have occured b4 the post...

then i said: don't wanna be too critical tho cos i prolly said worse at the same age. / just trying to offer u some perspective cos ya seem angsty

which indicates 'how i would feel in his situation' was also on my mind

....u r basing ur argument on the opposite of what is taking place...

Yes it was. Look no question the wording Bazza used was unfair. I will bet my last
dollar he will apologize when he calms down. This relates back to my larger context
analysis. Bazza is one of the most stand-up guys on WP. He is a parent , saw a kid
being "attacked".

Hmm I see you edit your other post 16 times before I posted my reply so I will
comment on something you wrote in an edit:



No my words want change a persons chances of a finding mate. Start counting women
here who have a husband, boyfriend/girlfriend, asexual or single and looking.
The number of single women looking for a mate is very low here. Do the same
count for males and you get very high numbers of those who never had a girlfriend,
or that are single and looking. Its a depressing large number. I've only seen two
females here start threads looking for boyfriends since I have been a member.

I do not know and maybe he does not know either. I made a total guess I could
be wrong.

>>>Hmm I see you edit your other post 16 times before I posted my reply so I will
comment on something you wrote in an edit:

sorry dood ...i tend to work iteratively....rough outline....then fix it up..

>No my words want change a persons chances of a finding mate. Start counting women
here who have a husband, boyfriend/girlfriend, asexual or single and looking.
The number of single women looking for a mate is very low here. Do the same
count for males and you get very high numbers of those who never had a girlfriend,
or that are single and looking. Its a depressing large number. I've only seen two
females here start threads looking for boyfriends since I have been a member.

yup...thats exactly what i was saying....ur predicting the future based on the past.. but unless every yesterday = every tomorrow this can't possibly hold true...

there is a spectrum of possiblities for aspie males reaching out from now into the future... 1 point on the spectrum is exactly how u say it is...

Those are good points your making and I missed that. Oh and not only could I be wrong about my analysis of Unknown true feelings , I could be wrong in the
sense I'm outta phase with 95%-99% of mankind on everthing mention in this thread.
But I still feel Unknown did absolutely nothing wrong.

Predicting for the collective group not individuals.

>>Yes it was. Look no question the wording Bazza used was unfair. I will bet my last
dollar he will apologize when he calms down. This relates back to my larger context
analysis. Bazza is one of the most stand-up guys on WP. He is a parent , saw a kid
being "attacked".

cool...

you'll hafta elaborate on what stand-up entails...but i don't think i was questioning his stand-upness on the site..

....just that he was slandering me etc...calling me a 'Nazi'

if he is a parent...he prolly should stop acting like a child diametrically opposed to his own statements:
but that's ok becuase I think you are a PC nazi whose opinion is not important to me. From your posts, I do not believe you are able maintain an argument based on logic, merely gross generalisations based on emotion, so I can't be bothered with you.

Bazza rarely makes such extreme statements. He just got mad. I'm sure he regrets
saying that but he's not likely to change his postion Unknown did nothing
wrong(and infact did good saying a rare aspie girl that started a thread looking
for a man was single again, yes she was one of the only two females that I remember making a thread looking for a boyfriend and she is now a hot property available
on the aspie meatmarket)

>>yup...thats exactly what i was saying....ur predicting the future based on the past.. but unless every yesterday = every tomorrow this can't possibly hold true...<<

You couldn't be more wrong. Think of projected sales, weather/growth/economy trends and so on. There is a major field called predictive analytics dedicated to this.

ok....so predictive analysis is 100% true of the future 100% of the time?

is predicting the weather equivelant to predicting what a community might think of Aspies in the future?

im saying awareness changes etc in the future....may radically alter how Aspie males etc are perceived...

how are u going to use predictive analytics do determine that?

the original statement on it was this:
u also condemn most aspie guys to a life alone etc....how can u predict this in an ever changing/evolving world....if every yesterday = every tomorrow....maybe.....but in 5 years or 50 years....aspie males might be hunted by women crazy for their specialities as its the new in thing etc... unless u know the future how can u be sure?

Not to sound 100% rude, but didn't you and RM apparently "date" for only a few days? Unless other posts on WP are lying to me, a few days of dating or saying you're dating I don't think is enough to constitute my feeling any pity over this little 'break-up'. I think (according to the personals thread) you were only dating for 3, maybe 4 days?

I don't think this is something we all need to be rabid about

EDIT: I'm sorry, my information is wrong. Your relationship only lasted "1 DAY" according to posts made on WP.

what i'd like to hear is redmage's side of the story

There shouldn't be much of one because they were 'going out' for only 1 day.

Please stop spamming this up alright you're going a bit off-topic alright??

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