Partner choice problems

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I think it's pretty clear that he feels no remorse. His problem was 'well i think she likes me but there mite be one problem im 17 and a half and shes 18 turning 19 in about a month.' What kind of a problem is that? He was asking whether or not she is too old for him to pursue something with her. What's with the male mentality of 'it's ok if I can get away with it'? Shame on all of you. At least willow's moral compass is pointing in the right direction.

>>ok my gf lives 40 mins away from me. so i dunno<<

Again, what the hell does that have to do with anything? Are you implying that you would owe her more respect if she lived closer?

>>These days, does dating someone for 2 months make them a "significant other" ?<<

These days? Meaning that during some 'olden days' it was different? I don't think so. Besides, 'significant other' has nothing to do with anything, it is basic human decency not to cheat or lie to *anyone*, especially the person who you have been seeing for 2 months.

well olden days, usually within 2 to 3 months of a couple dating, they'd be married....dat was of course in the 1600's.

I thought "olden days" was 1970's - 1980's - lol

Why can't you date more than 1 girl at once? Isn't dating about finding out if you want a more serious relationship? I just think that 2 months at age 17 is a bit short to make a relationship serious enough to become "significant others". But I am old.

[quote+"Willow"]"I cheated on you".[/quote]

I can see a conversation going like this:
Willow: "I feel awkward bringing this up, and I am embarassed that it happened...but I want you to know because I care about you, so I want to tell you "I cheated on you".

Willow's S.O.: Thank so much for being honest with me. That really great you care so much. I love you.

Willow: Thank's babe.

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