Revealing the Darksider way (online dating tips for males)

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Wow, what cheesy advice. Maybe if you want to attract a bunch of bimbos.

As for pictures, good ones are a must, but they don't need to be shirtless. The most important thing is that they show you in your natural life, looking happy and friendly. This is why the advice about if you do a shirtless photo make it on the beach is good advice. Go somewhere with family or friends and bring a camera. Pick out a few shots that show you well-lit, and happy. Do this over the course of a few outings and you will have a healthy collection of pictures. Pictures off of your webcam, in the bathroom mirror, etc. are the ones that drive people off.

Rule number 6? Seriously? Send a confrontational message as a last resort? If a girl doesn't respond after 3 messages, save your f*****g dignity and don't be a creep! What good is a girl that you have to guilt into talking to you. This belies a very low opinion of women if one who responds willingly, and one who you need to coerce is all the same.

I think well thought-out messages, a paragraph or so in length, will get you higher quality responses. If you are picky about who you message, and tell them what about their profile made them seem special, you will get more thoughtful responses. It worked for me with both guys and girls (I am bisexual), and my two year anniversary (not marriage, just dating) is less than two months away.

If you ask a girl for dating advice you get the answer on how a girl can get a date with a boy. This because there's a natural systematic bias. The scientific method to get around it is to do double-blind testing, theorize and validate, and generally challenge all thought patterns. However this is not something most be people would even get near on doing on the fly. Thus the advices tend to be honest, but flawed. If you meet someone serious they at least will have the imagination to challenge their own experiences as only bits of the true reality and figure out the properties of a situation where other prerequisites dictate possible options.

If real-good-match girls are the only ones to consider for dating you might have to wait a long time. In the meantime cuddling with a bimbo ain't that bad and the math simple shows that this is a more probable outcome.

The selection scheme of people that comes in high volume is the most likely factor to affect any outcome. Just don't confuse it with the right selection. Better matches may be fewer but more worthwhile and perhaps sometimes the only ones to be worthwhile at all.


Now if you put up a selection criteria up front that only matches 0,4 girls. It just won't cut it because you can't meet this "0,4" girl(s), she simple doesn't exist. Thus selection criteria is only an option IF there's a high volume to begin with.