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WantToHaveALife
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22 Feb 2013, 12:41 pm

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I would advise anyone who had had sex once to assume it will happen again - this is the right mindset to have as how your mind thinks about something has a direct impact on what occurs in your life.

Also you need to like and value yourself - this will then be projected out to others who are then more likely to respond accordingly.


and it is more important to men than it is to women, a lot of men will date or put up with a woman with low self-esteem, insecure, is not happy or comfortable and content with her life, but a man has to be happy with his life, comfortable and content, secure with himself while he is single in order to be boyfriend material



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22 Feb 2013, 12:51 pm

WantToHaveALife wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
I would advise anyone who had had sex once to assume it will happen again - this is the right mindset to have as how your mind thinks about something has a direct impact on what occurs in your life.

Also you need to like and value yourself - this will then be projected out to others who are then more likely to respond accordingly.


and it is more important to men than it is to women, a lot of men will date or put up with a woman with low self-esteem, insecure, is not happy or comfortable and content with her life, but a man has to be happy with his life, comfortable and content, secure with himself while he is single in order to be boyfriend material


I disagree

The person I've recently split up with was not comfortable and secure at all. He was pleading poverty all the time, his finances were a total mess and he played on my good nature to encourage me to give him money. He was always feeling ill ie playing the pity card and hence I would feel sorry for him. He gave no impression of being happy with his life at all. He rarely even smiled!