What's the worst way that you got dumped

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be glad that you haven't seen her since.

most women seem evil to me, of course most of them are. but then again seems most of you have dated NTs, that seem to be the evil ones.'

I (or attempt to at least) associate with the ones who I know are good NT's. trust me, there are those out there who may seem bad, probably because they come from a bad past, but believe you me, there are some good ones, usually they ain't virgins though.

By text, from the first person I was really in love with. It made me feel very low for months.

ouch.

text and Im. have girls no deceny these days? or honor for that matter. Deceny, I don't mind. Honor. yearh.

My last girlfriend dumped me simply by hanging up the phone when I called. After a few days, I stopped trying.

(I found out a few months later that a friend of hers told her something about me that made her very upset... and which wasn't true. But rather than check with me to verify what she was told, she accepted what her friend told her at face value. She eventually found out that what her friend told her was a lie, and that the lie was told with malicious intent. She was very upset over this... but by then the damage had been done. We tried to be friends again, but both of us were too uncomfortable over what had happened.)

Via email - after avoiding me for three months - like I wouldn't have got the message before then?? Gutless prick!

My wife of 12-1/2 years went to stay with her sister when her brother died. He had lived with her sister. I took her daughter and our grandsons to the viewing where she spoke mostly to others. I spent most of the time keeping track of her grandkids, taking them outside so as not to disturb the viewing, getting them something to eat, etc. I spent the days up through the day of the funeral shuttling her kids and grandkids around and babysitting. My only contact with her at the funeral was giving her a hug in the receiving line. She hugged me like a cousin. She went to stay with her sister that night as well and I wondered when she would come home. The next day, shortly after I got home from work, she stopped by to say she wasn't coming back and had been planning it for a very long time. In other words, I found out she left me 4 days after she left, after I had taken care of everything in her absence. This was also just as her youngest child turned 18. She said that she'd wanted to wait "until the right time".

End of July...He picked a fight at 8:00 in the morning the day after my grandmother had died and I went up my mom's with my son for awhile until he calmed down...and because I didn't feel like arguing.

My SIL called that afternoon as we were planning to go home and told me I should stay the night as he was in a "mood" and now drinking.

I came home with my son around 11:30 the next morning to a 19 yr old girl that worked for him on the sleeper sofa and him sitting in the recliner next to her as if he jumped there when he heard the door open.

I said leave...and didn't know where he went...about 2 or 3 weeks later he told me about the "real" other woman he had been seeing and calling (and going to the amusement park with my son and her kids while I was at home)... since about Jan or Feb...basically the 19 yr old was just to see how much he could make me bleed I guess.

I was dating an NT, we were living together, or more appropriately, I was supporting him, and he sat on the couch, drank whiskey, and watched cable all the time. I took care of everything financially, for a very long time, and I began to be very resentfull. He couldn't even cook, do dishes, or laundry. Finally, I told him I couldn't pay his way anymore, and he would have to help pull the weight. So he got a job, which he promptly quit after a week or two, then, I came home, cooked dinner, and waited up for him, and he didn't come home. I thought he was working late, or out. I hopped into bed to find the dear Joan letter. He had left the state. Then he called a few weeks later, wanting to come back. Talk about a slap in the face. Then, I found out he had had a fling with a female friend of mine. Slap the other cheek. After the affair he called to see if I would take him back. HE was the last NT I have ever dated, and I am pretty sure he will be the last NT I will ever date. My only exception would be an NT with a deep understanding of AS, or an NT with AS features. Streight up NTS tend to play more brutal romantic games. So simple that I miss the point.