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28 Dec 2012, 2:59 am
I dated ALL the celebrities! 
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28 Dec 2012, 3:03 am
Who_Am_I wrote:
I dated ALL the celebrities!
Apparently Boo and Wolf are under some impression that women derive our self esteem based on who wants to f*ck us.
28 Dec 2012, 3:07 am
Kjas wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
I dated ALL the celebrities!
Apparently Boo and Wolf are under some impression that women derive our self esteem based on who wants to f*ck us.
If they say so, it must be true. After all, as women, we don't know our own minds.
28 Dec 2012, 3:11 am
Kjas wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
I dated ALL the celebrities!
Apparently Boo and Wolf are under some impression that women derive our self esteem based on who wants to f*ck us.
I didn't catch that from either of them.
28 Dec 2012, 3:15 am
Kjas wrote:
blue_bean wrote:
I'd be inclined to just leave things as they are (maybe meet another once or twice if you wish for indulgence sake) and consider your high school fantasy at least somewhat fulfilled.
I dunno, this is a very unique situation, and probably a one in a million situation for anyone on WP. People here can't even get other lowly specks of dirt to talk to them. In comparison to that hooking up with a [good looking, wealthy and charming] celebrity and the torn feelings proceeding it isn't exactly a negative life problem IMO.
I'd still have a chance with my teen celebrity crush if he didn't come out gay and move to Palm Springs
I dunno, this is a very unique situation, and probably a one in a million situation for anyone on WP. People here can't even get other lowly specks of dirt to talk to them. In comparison to that hooking up with a [good looking, wealthy and charming] celebrity and the torn feelings proceeding it isn't exactly a negative life problem IMO.
I'd still have a chance with my teen celebrity crush if he didn't come out gay and move to Palm Springs
I've got to agree with Blue Bean here.
I have been on dates with a celeberity before - it took me halfway through the first date to click where I knew his face from. We went on 4 dates total and I never slept with him.
I shudder to think how that could have ended now even though we never really did anything except kiss, since I hate public attention.
In my opion, this isn't worth it. Especially if you value your privacy.
While it's true - these celebs are just people.
But the other part of the problem is that they are so used to having any woman that they want fall at their feet, and play along with their game - always their way or the high way. I think it's best to leave the situation as is now, you got what you wanted, you know exactly were he's at and you know that won't change at all. It's probably best to extract yourself now with good grace while you still have a semi-clear head.
You already know what the outcome of this will be.
The only question is, are you doing do it with ill grace or with good grace?
Thank you, Kjas
Thanks for sharing your experience.
I'd much rather see people just as people, but I dislike a lot of aspects that could follow from his position. I do value my privacy and I dislike the fact that he does seem to be proudly a ladies man.
If it would have been my way to begin with, I would have just had a traditional date with a person who seems like a very charming guy. Right now the whole situation feels somehow twisted, but tempting at the same time. It's never been my desire to "use" someone and I don't want to be toyed with either. I do respect him as a person and quite honestly, I like him as a person, even though I keep reasoning to myself that I shouldn't fall for him. I can't see him treating me as an equal partner, especially when I've already allowed him to have it his way.
28 Dec 2012, 3:21 am
Wolfheart wrote:
Kjas wrote:
I have been on dates with a celeberity before
Oh really haha? I've been on dates with Anne Hathaway and Boo has got a hot date with Natalie Portman tonight.
That's really unnecessary, Wolf... People are just people after all. Celebs are not some super-humans living above the world of us mere mortals.
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28 Dec 2012, 4:09 am
Lilya wrote:
Thank you, Kjas
Thanks for sharing your experience.
I'd much rather see people just as people, but I dislike a lot of aspects that could follow from his position. I do value my privacy and I dislike the fact that he does seem to be proudly a ladies man.
If it would have been my way to begin with, I would have just had a traditional date with a person who seems like a very charming guy. Right now the whole situation feels somehow twisted, but tempting at the same time. It's never been my desire to "use" someone and I don't want to be toyed with either. I do respect him as a person and quite honestly, I like him as a person, even though I keep reasoning to myself that I shouldn't fall for him. I can't see him treating me as an equal partner, especially when I've already allowed him to have it his way.
Thanks for sharing your experience.
I'd much rather see people just as people, but I dislike a lot of aspects that could follow from his position. I do value my privacy and I dislike the fact that he does seem to be proudly a ladies man.
If it would have been my way to begin with, I would have just had a traditional date with a person who seems like a very charming guy. Right now the whole situation feels somehow twisted, but tempting at the same time. It's never been my desire to "use" someone and I don't want to be toyed with either. I do respect him as a person and quite honestly, I like him as a person, even though I keep reasoning to myself that I shouldn't fall for him. I can't see him treating me as an equal partner, especially when I've already allowed him to have it his way.
I too, prefer to see people as just people.
And while I can, and do that as much as is possible, there are times when you have to confront reality. And the reality is that the rest of the world doesn't see it that way - even though you do. If you date a celeberity, if you date someone who is extremely rich, or if you date someone from an elite family, you have to consider the realities of the situation. And he has already made it clear that what the public thinks comes before you - which forces you to put what they think ahead of you too, if you want to continue being with him.
I don't think you used him and it's understandable that you don't want to be toyed with. He's been up front about what this was and what he wants. Have you? Not just to him, but to yourself?
It feels twisted for a reason - it's like trying to have something with him but there's another thing there that you always have to be mindful of (the public), creating artificial limits where there shouldn't be any.
If you know he's not going to be respectful enough to treat you as an equal, then wouldn't it be better to leave before you fall for him? I'm not saying right now, enjoy it while it lasts or for as long as you can safely, but keep a close tab on your feelings so that you can still extract yourself when you need to. There's nothing wrong with enjoying him as a person, as long as you don't get yourself hurt in the process.
28 Dec 2012, 4:32 am
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28 Dec 2012, 5:27 am
Kjas wrote:
If you date a celeberity
Celebrity*
Careful Kjas, you will get arrested by the spelling police if you persist.
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