young single women just don't like me.

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That's my life. To be fair, even among males my age, the conversation still goes like "yeah bro, whatever, that's cool."

Maybe it's just because of this example but something really jumps out at me here.

This is a summation of the conversations:

To the older woman- something positive about the food.
To the married and younger woman- something positive about the food.
To the man- something negative about the food.
To the single and younger woman- something negative about the food.

You approached the single woman with the same sort of comment that you used with the man. It would have been better to use the same sort of comment that you used with the two other women. If a comment is a good conversation starter with some women, it is better to use a similar conversation starter with other women than what worked as a conversation starter with men.

well, thanks for the tip. but to be honest, it don't matter what I say. Most young,single women just don't like me, no matter what.
I don't mind if many young single women don't like me. But dammit I want at least one to like me. Im not trying to be some alpha male that is banging 10 girls a night, that not what Im going for. I just want one single,young woman who just want to be friends with me. Want to hang out and possible even a relationship with. since 2007, I have not meet any young single women that wants to hang out. I have had plenty men who I hang out with. married women and older women who invited me to hang out with them. since and before 2007.

this is what I hate. I don't want to be an alpha male, a bad boy, a players. I want to be me. A fun,eccentric autism man who just like to talk about different things and like to listen. I accept myself, older women can accept me, married women can accept me, men can accept me. but why can't younger single women accept me. why are they the only whole groups of people who hate me and want to avoid me and not even give me a chance.

but any ways I will try your advice next time Im at a bbq and see what happen

so Im at the river and have to go across the river, now Im not the best swimmer but I do my best at swimming.
now there is a man across the river and the man goes ''hey, I will build you a bridge, so he starts building a bridge''
an older woman and married woman see me and go''hey we will get you a boat, so they go and going to get me a boat
Now a young,single woman comes by and I say ''could you help me get across this river'' and she looks at me, with a mean look
and goes ''sir, you are man you have to swim across the river, if not then stay away from me''
I look surpise and little upset. I go ''ok,then''' the young,single woman walks away.

so the older woman and married woman comes back with the boat and they help me across the river.
The man who was building the bridge. greet me and invite me to the party.
at the party I saw the young,single woman and went up to tell her ''no hard feeling''
as I approach and about to talk to her, she goes''why should I even talk to you, You couldn't even
swim across the river, what kind of man are you, please stay away from me''
I put my hands up and go ''whatever''. For the rest of the night I had a good time, everyone was having a good and fun time.
expect the single,young woman who just look at me with such anger.
and whenever I try to make peace with her. She just snubs me, and walks aways.
so one day I just got so upset and say to the young woman ''you know, we can't all be good swimmers and
can swim across the river, so of us are not good at swimming''
the young woman reply ''please,don't talk to me. You can't swim good, you can't swim across the river.
you are fraud of a man, why do even try talking to any women, why would any women want to do anything with
a man like you, a real man knows how to swim, a real man knows how to swim across a river, you ask me to help you,
why should I help you, go to swimming lesson, grow some balls, none the less, you are pathetic human being,
and if you talk to me again I will have you arrested, so stay away from me you creep''
and I go ''fine, I don't want to talk to someone like you anyways''
and so the story ends. I never once again talk to that young woman.




(this is a methapor or just a story) but the moral is that in a way is how it goes for me.

bill i think you just look at the youtube channel simplepickup. i told you this in another thread but you ignored me! i think you;d like it bro..just a suggestion though

I can tell why they don't like you but don't want to hurt your feelings.

It all depends on how badly you want to know why really

young women have more estrogen and are attracted to testosterone, so you either have it or you don't, but you could get in on the lesbian side if you aren't alpha material and wait for a looong time, or else go get some body building supplements and work out and turn into a douche, either way women need to get a release and we see it as a cleansing so figure that out

that channel is not worth for anything more than just shock humor laughs.

Maybe they just aren't attracted to you and feel that if they dont talk to you, you'll think they're rude and if they talk to you but don't have feelings for you you'll say they "friendzoned" you, which is a term used by ignorant men of my generation when they realize just because a friend of theirs has a vagina, it doesn't mean they are entitled to her or that she wants him. This is not a bad reflection on you; it seems to be the way guys act anymore.

Yeah, more testosterone is pretty f*****g awesome. Just lifting itself will cause adaptations for more testosterone. Also, I find eating lots of eggs. Eggs are pretty awesome. Need that cholesterol to be a precursor for more hormones.

yeah. I did check out them video.

I do lift weights. and I do act like douche sometimes but no one ever notice.

damn it, all Im asking for is at least one young single woman to like me. Im not trying to be an alpha male or a player. I have no interest being some super popular guy with the ladies. I just want one woman under 35, that is single that just want to hang out with me, maybe once in a while.
Like once a month, once every 3 months. I know my eccentric personality may scare alot of ladies but dammit I like to have at least one.

Or you can take a testosterone shot, I'm planning to inject 2000mg a week soon, I'm currently on 950mg.

Regarding turning into a douche, increased dosages of testosterone won't do that if you are emotionally disciplined, it can really depend on the person.

USA has a bit more stringent steroid use laws than UK. We penalize personal possession here. Also, doctors here usually only give out TRT creams, not shots. Steroids seems like a lot of trouble, since I'd not wanna be on cycle forever. Then you gotta do PCTs and take anti-estrogens and blah blah. Just too much work to figure out, and money. Plus since I do have some athletic goals, in the future I may actually get drug tested.

Right now besides the eggs and whatnot, I take a Chinese herb called eucommia bark, and it seems to help T levels a lot. Increase in libido, confidence, outgoingness, and also appetite (but I already eat a fuckload all the time anyway, and pretty much can gain muscle by looking at a squat rack, so I think my natural T levels aren't really bad to begin with.) Apparently it works like a SARM. And all I gotta do is go down to my Asian market and plop down $1.89 for a box of tea every week or two.

Admittedly, to work at it from that kinda angle requires OCD attention to nutritional strategies and whatnot. I don't have any moral beliefs against steroids or anything, though. I just see them as medications. But usually for most things in my life, I avoid pharmaceutical drugs in general and try to work at a problem from a "natural" angle before going for pharmaceuticals.

Me personally, with more testosterone (or at least what I perceive as such) I'm a lot more outgoing. But it doesn't really fundamentally change my personality. It just makes you more of you. In my case, it makes me even more Chris-chan like in my interactions with people, so being more outgoing isn't necessarily a good thing, as you can be outgoing...and an idiot. So it seems in my life the choice is between "feel good and be an idiot" and "feel bad and be shy but not look like an idiot." Damned if you do, damned if you don't.

Regarding test, though, I have a friend who took a 250mg shot of T, with Aspergers, and he said it made him a lot more confident and outgoing. He also said he'd debate his teacher in class more and have giant debates with people where he'd totally rock people's entire world views.

Anyway, 2000mg? That sounds pretty insane.

Fair enough, I took something called Manhood Max a couple of years ago that was a combination of natural herbal aphrodisiacs and testosterone boosters. I will most likely take tribulus for a month for post cycle as I'm currently on 950mg of a test blend which is comprised 6 testosterone esters. I'm also stacking it with a couple of other things as well.

It's not actually purely testosterone, it's a mix, 500mg of equipoise, 250mg of test e and 250mg of tren e so I'll do 2 injections per week and probably use an oral to kick start the cycle.

All I can say is since upping my test levels, I can grow a full beard quickly, I am hairy and I have been feeling more confident and outgoing in myself. It has definitely helped me and I would recommend using it, perhaps even at a low dosage, 500mg of test a week should be good for you if you have never taken any kind of performance enhancing drugs.