Third date, and she still resists hugging???

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The_Face_of_Boo
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06 Jan 2013, 11:54 am

rabidmonkey4262 wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
There's nothing wrong in dating several candidates while you didn't commit a relationship with anyone yet (becoming her bf), do not go moralist on me, Ms. idealist.

All the girls I've dated through dating site were dating other candidates, everyone does it; and I can bet that girls do it more often than guys!! (due to the imbalance of opportunities; when I was dating 2 girls at a time, the girls were seeing like 4-5-6, no girl told me a number less than 4) In fact, they've been always grateful for my honesty on that matter, and the funny thing they always admit that they're doing the same too.

I think I just figured out why aspie males have such a hard time finding decent women. I can think of several women, myself included, that would not put up with this. We don't have time to waste on guys like that. It's only the desperate people who resort to these tricks.


Oh oh...the wisdom...the idealism!

What did you figure out? that Aspie males are jerks and a**holes? :lol:

So you and the few like you are "decent women" and ALL the women I've dated are what? desperate whores? Mind you, most of them were far from this description, they were not desperate per se and they had many suitors and fans themselves.

Please spare me all this BS, I am not telling him to cheat on his wife/gf, I am telling him it's ok to date others AT THIS stage.



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06 Jan 2013, 12:36 pm

If she is so busy, why is she looking for a date? It sounds like she is to busy to have a partner. That or she is trying to be nice to you by lying, when she really thinks you are likely not worth investing much time and effort on. Take it as a sign and focus more on other women. I am not saying give up on her, but she does not seem to be that into you.


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