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25 Jan 2013, 6:08 am

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it is an exaggeration for you to have assumed that all women walk around with offers from pleasingly attractive men, or to assume that being a woman is a cure for sexual loneliness. i have met women who don't get offers, and i have met men who get more poontang than they can handle. for some women, all the offers they get are frommen they would never willingly sleep with. i was making the point that you were making a gigantic generalisation about women

Without having to boot up my world simulator here, the point I was making is that I'd still take say the analogous offers my sister gets (who's a lot like me, except female, and somewhat 'sperged out as well) compared to what I have to do in order to take a woman home. A man gets sick of having to rewrite his personality in order to get laid or find any chance of romance, while my sister can just be herself and be considered cute and attractive.

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25 Jan 2013, 6:08 am

Boo, yes you are correct. i thought it was clear that i was refrring to sexual objectification, but i guess not.

Jono, i am aware that women can use men for sex. if i ever meet one that does that, i'll let you know. so far i have not, as it seems to be a lot less common, though i am aware that it can and does happen.

i don't think that my statement seems to be saying that objectification causes rape, but just in case you misunderstood i'll clarify - it isn't objectification itself that causes rape. however, i would say that our culture seems to have some severely messed up factors that have led to the sexual obectification of women, and also rape. i am not an expert on these matters so i don't know what causes this.

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25 Jan 2013, 7:48 am

There is no one on this earth who could love me. I know that for a fact.

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25 Jan 2013, 7:49 am

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Boo, yes you are correct. i thought it was clear that i was refrring to sexual objectification, but i guess not.

Ohhh.... the world is becoming more equal in that regard!! It's not that far, really!

by more and more sexually-objectificating the men though; not by dis-objectification of women.

and this is not something too recent, plenty of examples in media can be seen here:

http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/M ... heEyeCandy

and more and more women are watching porn, including gay porn.

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25 Jan 2013, 8:14 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

hyperlexian wrote:

Boo, yes you are correct. i thought it was clear that i was refrring to sexual objectification, but i guess not.

and women are also killed in war, hence their bodies are objectified. yay equality!! !

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25 Jan 2013, 6:30 pm

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You can flip the coin,NT men like aspie women,but for one thing only.......

Still better than not liked at all, no?

Not really,if they don't like my mind then I'll pass.

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25 Jan 2013, 6:51 pm

Let me ask Mario he knows alot when it comes to women!! Hey mario do all NT women hate aspie men? [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bp55goEW82c[/youtube]

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25 Jan 2013, 7:02 pm

IlovemyAspie wrote:

Shau wrote:

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I was gonna say NT women hate aspie men so I can get a response like this:

You're a kitty cat, man. What YOU need is a woman to chase YOU! (Probably a cougar)

That might work!!

Il be sure to not wear a cape as well hehe! [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M68ndaZSKa8[/youtube]

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25 Jan 2013, 7:22 pm

Shau wrote:

Misslizard wrote:

You can flip the coin,NT men like aspie women,but for one thing only.......

Given a choice between between being used for sex (Which is what I think you're implying here) and never getting laid (without acting like an alpha neurotypical), I'd happily trade positions with you.

Positions...positions..."giggity giggity"

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25 Jan 2013, 7:27 pm

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exactly, I had to do alot of changing of my personality just to get women to talk to me and become friends with me.
but yet if I was a woman, I could just talk about adam sandler, and still gotten a date.

I have to go out of my way just to meet women. But yet women can just sit there and have some guys approach them,
and no matter how weird a girl is, guys never seem to notice.

''hey, joe your new girlfriend is weird'' joe: oh, she is oh I never notice...

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25 Jan 2013, 7:47 pm

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except that it isn't true for all women. some women are weird and don't get dates, it really does depend on the individual.

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25 Jan 2013, 8:12 pm

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except that it isn't true for all women. some women are weird and don't get dates, it really does depend on the individual.

The real underlying point here, imo, is that atm both me and Billis are feeling a bit weary from the specific challenges asperguys face, cause the weirdness tends to hurt our attractiveness more, let's be honest about it.

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25 Jan 2013, 8:26 pm

hyperlexian wrote:

billiscool wrote:

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hyperlexian wrote:

except that it isn't true for all women. some women are weird and don't get dates, it really does depend on the individual.

^^^Bottom line it really does depend on the individual

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25 Jan 2013, 8:51 pm

Shau wrote:

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except that it isn't true for all women. some women are weird and don't get dates, it really does depend on the individual.

how do you know how attractive you are?

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25 Jan 2013, 8:51 pm

Shau wrote:

hyperlexian wrote:

except that it isn't true for all women. some women are weird and don't get dates, it really does depend on the individual.

yes, I never claim that all aspie women can get dates and all aspie men can't get dates. However aspie women have a lot better of chance of getting a date than an aspie man can.

look, I am not a stud. however can I talk to women better than alot of aspie men can. I think mr.shau does well with women too or at least better than the average aspie men.

I don't mind that I have to improve myself and personality to talk to women and I enjoy talking to women (as long as they are nice)
however, many aspie men find it nearly impossible to talk to women. I have had sex before, I been with a woman before, but because I've had some succes with a woman, I am not going to pretend that it easy for aspie men because it not.

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25 Jan 2013, 8:58 pm

billiscool wrote:

Shau wrote:

hyperlexian wrote:

except that it isn't true for all women. some women are weird and don't get dates, it really does depend on the individual.

based on real-life experience (various aspie groups) - no, aspie women DON'T get more dates than aspie men. on this board, it might be different (but i haven't seen any definitive surveys, and we have lot of undiagnosed aspies).

what purpose does it serve you to believe it anyway? does it get you dates? does it help you talk to women? does it make you happy? i doubt it. it's much more likely to make you even more bitter and angry at someone, either NT women or NT men or aspie women or whoever. and it's all based on something that likely isn't even true, and if some small part of it proves correct, that only holds true on WrongPlanet, not in real life.

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