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blunnet
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20 Mar 2013, 1:27 am

First kiss and sexual encounter at 25. Never have been in a relationship.



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20 Mar 2013, 2:56 am

I was 16 when I had my first boyfriend. It was a good experience. But I'm trying to recall how it all started and I can't. I remember the denouement though :cry:



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20 Mar 2013, 3:17 am

17 - last December.


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21 Mar 2013, 12:08 am

cathylynn wrote:
what do you mean, relationship? in tenth grade, I dated a guy for months and we didn't even kiss. sex first time, age 26. I hope one of those answers your question.


Yeah. My first relationship was like that. I was a senior in high school, and I dated a girl for a month and we never kissed. I kissed her once on her cheeks that it. But my first ''good'' relationship was when I was 23.



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21 Mar 2013, 1:40 am

billiscool wrote:
cathylynn wrote:
what do you mean, relationship? in tenth grade, I dated a guy for months and we didn't even kiss. sex first time, age 26. I hope one of those answers your question.


Yeah. My first relationship was like that. I was a senior in high school, and I dated a girl for a month and we never kissed. I kissed her once on her cheeks that it. But my first ''good'' relationship was when I was 23.

I never kissed or did anything sexual with anyone till my 3rd relationship at the age of 29


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21 Mar 2013, 5:56 pm

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21 Mar 2013, 6:32 pm

I haven't had one yet.. Wouldn't even know where to start with boys and relationships if I'm honest.



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21 Mar 2013, 6:58 pm

the first time I was ever in love was when I was 8 or 9, but my first ever relationship, I was 21.


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23 Mar 2013, 10:10 pm

I've never had a girlfriend...although, when I was in 1st grade me and this girl considered each other boyfriend-girlfriend (but I don't think that really counts.)



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23 Mar 2013, 10:46 pm

My first boyfriend was @ 15 but was non-sexual and I had 2 non-sexual relationships in high school. In college I felt kind of pressured to branch out because my bestie was all "Sex is AWESOME", so I had my first sexual relationship @ 17. Truthfully, it was a mistake. I chose the wrong person for the wrong reasons (I didn't even like him, but he was easy) so I didn't learn about intimacy for years afterwards. A shame really.



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24 Mar 2013, 10:24 am

I had my first relationship at 18 and still think about him occasionally today (almost 20 years later). We met in music school, both piano players and I loved how sensitive and loving he was but I was emotionally unstable and immature at the time and unwillingly pushed him away (that break-up HURT...I felt a bomb go off in my head when it happened). We only dated 6 weeks but those were an INTENSE 6 weeks but we didn't have sex (oh, how I wanted to). I wanted to marry him actually and seeing him after the break-up was so hard and wanted him back. If he were available and we were friends (haven't seen him in over a decade) I would consider dating him again. You never lose it for your first love.



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25 Mar 2013, 12:28 am

Never, currently.



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25 Mar 2013, 12:30 am

bombergal wrote:
I had my first relationship at 18 and still think about him occasionally today (almost 20 years later). We met in music school, both piano players and I loved how sensitive and loving he was but I was emotionally unstable and immature at the time and unwillingly pushed him away (that break-up HURT...I felt a bomb go off in my head when it happened). We only dated 6 weeks but those were an INTENSE 6 weeks but we didn't have sex (oh, how I wanted to). I wanted to marry him actually and seeing him after the break-up was so hard and wanted him back. If he were available and we were friends (haven't seen him in over a decade) I would consider dating him again. You never lose it for your first love.


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01 Apr 2013, 8:04 am

Well, the fist time I had a relationship (that lasted longer than 10 minutes) was when I was 12. He was new to town, nice, respectful, and relatively good looking. It lasted about a year, then he went out with an older girl (before we broke up). Turns out after high school he came out of the closet and found himself a boyfriend.
But as far as a real relationship I could actually see going somewhere: nothing yet, but still looking. :wink:



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01 Apr 2013, 8:18 am

I was 6


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01 Apr 2013, 9:10 am

Growlithe wrote:
Dang! I'm 18 and have never had a gf. I'm still somewhat shy around girls. I couldn't just walk up to a random girl like some guys can.

I am what you call a late bloomer.


Yay the late bloomer club haha

Same im 20 and ive never had a gf, ive only had one person ive seriously liked and i still do sadly but the feelings were not the same.
Never had anyone thats showed an intrest but i cant blame them :?