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lol it wouldn't bother me personally seriously, don't worry about it. I think the root of problem has been established.
Not that it's really a problem.

That was between men, why can't men talk about what their bodies do like the women can on this forum? Before you say ladies first, let me remind you that a lot of you guys blame girls for all your dating problems, so don't even say it at all! The contrast in courtesy is starting to bug me, and I think I need an answer as to why there is no man thread for men only. Why isn't there? moderator: "Your a guy, don't you think men would talk about ladies behind their back in there? And besides they're ladies, show some respect!", don't give me that bull, I know for a fact every single sub forum talks about people like that every so often, so why shouldn't there be a men only sub forum? Are you saying ladies should get to talk badly about men, and men can not? The actual description for that particular thread is semi sexist as well stating "Having a male gynecologist is like having an auto-mechanic without a car." Fine, if that is the way you want it, there are no more male gynecologists in the whole women persecuting world, sorry for even trying. I am angry and I have good reason! I will tell myself to calm down, so don't say that either.

In fact, you don't deserve a gynecologist if that is how you talk about him behind your back! No child of mine is going to even be any kind of doctor for that sort of thing if that is how women will talk about them for keeping their reproductive **** working (if am correct as to what a gynecologist actually does.)! Why would you even say stuff like that and then tell men they are wrong about dating a certain way? I get corrected for buying my wife milk when she is out, and the descipt for the women only forum is "Having a male gynecologist is like having an auto-mechanic without a car."? I call serious bull! At least you should appreciate what you have instead of making the descript so insulting.

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My relationship started on here out of the blue, from a random message. And now he lives in Michigan, lol. I never expected to meet anyone; I just came on here to seek help.

We all can, in the Adult board. L&D isn't the place if you think they're being too graphic report it to a mod or something. Generally a lot of guys enjoy the women going into detail so tend not to report. Make of that what you will..

Suggest it or question it in the WP Discussion board. I have to say there is an unfortunate bias and tendency for men to b***h about women in such a place or use it as a smokescreen for their extremist views. I'm sure the mods and all women here don't hold man as a gender liable, but unfortunately the idiocy of a few individuals is why we probably can't have one.

I don't think that's being said at all. Go in their forum and have a look in there. What do you see?

As there is no rational male equivalent of shoving a hand inside front genitals I'm inclined to accept that opinion. I'd like to have a say on people that put their hands inside my body as well and how adequate for the job I feel they are. It doesn't outright say "all male gynos are rubbish". There's some tact to it at least. Anyways, just sayin.

**** it. None of my sons or daughters are going to be doctors, you sexist men have officially pissed me the **** off! This is an aspie and autism forum! WTF!?! This is unacceptable behavior for any site other than "pleaseargueinasexistwayforum.com". What the heck? And no, no daughter of mine is ever going to dare utter the words that are in that descript I am so mad about, or she will be disowned. How ungrateful, rude, sexist, shallow, and cowardly! None of my male offspring are becoming doctors either, I will not have them talked about behind their back with such unappreciative hogwash. Now I know why people in Japan don't question the doctor, he knows what he is doing, he's saving your life, get over it! If I was a female, I would never dare utter those offensive words, like vipers poison, it disgusts me.

I see nothing, but disrespect begetting more effing disrespect. It is pointless. And quite frankly, I am not one of those men who does that crap. I do not have a tendency to do sexist crap, so why do people correct me in my 'olde' style home values, including chivalry, treating women like they are your wife and not used garbage, and stuff like that? Me:"Hmm my wife needs milk, I think I'll get her some while I am here at the store..." and then, not to correct her at all, but hyperlexian thinks her way is more correct, and assumes my lady won't like me for my gentleman like ways, and tells me my wife can do it herself. I am sorry, she may want to do it herself, but she can get over it, we would probably do each other after that anyways, so what is the big deal? I gotta appreciate everything you do hyperlexian, but how me and my wife do things is our business, not yours, ok?

Okay answer me this, if you're going to call me sexist:

You were more than happy to engage in the conversation about breasts until you were needlessly called out. Now you condemn women for sharing TMI. Fail to see the hypocricy in this still?

Can I also ask you why you feel the need to swear at me and stomp your feet? I was very civil and simply giving you explanations as to why things are the way they are and what you can do. If you don't want to hear that, no problem. But at least return the favor.

I and no one else ever undermined the abilities of any male practitioner of any sort by the way. My previous therapist was male, my GP is male, the person at my pharmacist who serves me is male. They've all been very helpful. I value their abilities esp. my GP's he's been great. Where has all this anger come from? Why are you not making any sense?

The only viper's poison I see is coming from yourself.

I know I'm asking for much, but look at the last few exchanges you had with people after you've calmed down a bit. Include their messages in your reading digest. Can you honestly say you've been a calm, collected, rational individual with reasonable retort, and that I or anyone else has been (all) of the things you have said they have been?

I appreciate you might be very sensitive to having your views challenges, or in this case completely destroyed. I was like that once. But learn that that's how life goes. There will always be people that challenge your views, or say things about you you feel are untrue or you don't agree with. You have to learn to deal with it....but not in this fashion!

edit: hyperlexian's views are another topic altogether

WTF, sexist guys who got banned, nice job, you ruined a perfectly good site, nice effing job. This is the reason good guys, heroes, and guys who take bullets for people, don't ever get the girl, because of sexist men. It bugs the piss out of me.

I dunno, good people aren't entitled to anything. What's that saying "kindness is its own reward"

People aren't property, man or woman, so we aren't entitled or rewarded them for being good. People are attracted to who they're attracted to.

Hey hotshot, I wasn't even talking about you. People can actually talk about two people at once, it is possible, it is not against the laws of physics. Stop getting offended and keeping this argument going before we both get yelled at. Every time I swear, when I get mad, people think I am mad at them automatically because they either think I am responding to them or they just somehow know I am talking about them when we are in completely different parts of the world. Even hyperlexian thought this, and I got a warning for it. I kept on arguing like you are cause I got offended at nothing when the anger wasn't even directed at me. Let's just stop this before we get in trouble ok?

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I never said people are property. And in this same exact topic I already said "Do it because it i the right thing to do"
There is no reward in being kind, not even being kind itself, cause it still feels like s**t sometimes.

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Yeah, it can feel that way sometimes. Sorry, I wasn't aware all your venting was at 'lex. I didn't see her post in this topic so that was confusing a little. You're right, though, best let this one fall to the wayside.

@Sarah, have a look round WP maybe even some more topics in L&D and see how you feel

It wasn't at lex either. It was at sexist men. As far as I know I am allowed to be angry at sexist men.

But thanks, your pretty cool. It is hard to stop both tyrades before the two people get warned sometimes.

And lexian, I am actually not mad at you at all. You are very helpful to me, and I was just saying that when people tell me what to do about things that is none of their business, it bugs me a lot. We already got past that, and I wasn't starting that up again. Good got it all of my chest.

And sarah, when you don't want men to COMPLIMENT your breasts, don't say "Well I guess for you, I can touch my DD's all I want !"

I actually find it comical how your think this is any of my fault anyways, when you were the one who took it to an inappropriate level about your breasts in the first place. I am sorry any of this happened to you, and I hope you don't make this mistake in the future. I certainly hope I don't get so mad when flirting with you makes you assume I am perverted again.