Are innocent women endearing?

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Jacoby
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22 Sep 2016, 4:56 pm

Nice Penthouse letter Spiderpig!

I don't think most guys like the opposite and if they do it has to do with them being easier to bed rather than because than any desire for a relationship or to start a family with them or even liking them as people. Sure, I imagine that's a lot of fun if you're into that. I don't want to be mean but there a lot of words for woman that are "wild party girls" that have had like a 100+ partners and I don't think any of them are nice. People always bring up this double standard with men which is 1)it's not the same in my opinion and 2)why is the more demure or innocent side of the spectrum the wrong side as opposed to the unabashed hedonism that our culture now supports? This why our society is more miserable now than ever.



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22 Sep 2016, 5:58 pm

My earlier post in response to you Jacoby did not send.

I said that I've seen your past posts so of all people you should know what I mean when I say the following:

The freedom Feminism has allowed women along with a more 'liberal' (depraved) and individualistic society in general has allowed women who otherwise would have learnt to hide any of feelings of aggression, immodesty, brashness etc. To now let it all out.

It appears unlike the past, in which people we're conditioned to think and behave more civil, it is not just Hippy's and teens that rebel any more. Everyone is trying to be unique and special (Tumbler and its beginning of the Genderqueer trend, etc.) cool and amazing (only showing off positive aspects of life on social media for narcissistic likes and approval), etc.

No one what's o be plain, quiet and special ordinary anymore. We must all b by unique adventurous edgy badas hipsters to attract anyone it appears.

Anyway, I say think many aspects of the past sucked and were awful . the racism, conservatism and many things were swept under a rug
But this complete 180 in what feels like only 2 generations (boomer to X to Y) is almost just as bad except for more legal rights and 'equality' which I use very loosely.

The ideal socity for me would be positive aspects of the past comhined with good aspects of todays world.



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23 Sep 2016, 7:53 am

Meh I find that many just wanna hit it and quit it honestly. Is there even a genuine attraction???



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23 Sep 2016, 4:18 pm

green0star wrote:
Meh I find that many just wanna hit it and quit it honestly. Is there even a genuine attraction???


It's about physical attraction so yes.

This relates to women having higher standard which means less men are considered date able. This leads to a higher women to men ratio for those men who meet the requirement. Leads those men to be less monogamous since they have many options. It's getting quite bad articles I read showed there's a correlation between colleges with more men then women and causal sex. Where as ones with more men tend to be more relationship friendly.


I agree with others that our society is heading towards a crash.

Many here claim there's equal gender ratios but many women ask where's all the men even to men like me cause we don't count.

I could never do a one night stand besides the one I was lied into



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24 Sep 2016, 12:23 am

Many 'innocent' women have traveled great distances in ways that translate impressively when they are ready to cast off from the shore in the physical realm, just because they haven't found the right moment or opportunity it doesn't mean they are without depth or potential to delve into the sexual pool.