Worst thing the opposite gender has ever told you about you?

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once a girl told me my cock was too big. that's the worst thing i can think of.

I was told "I love you but I can't live in your world" after being together four years.

I still miss her at times.

That I was fat and repulsive and that no one would ever want me. Well I lost 87 pounds and am about to celebrate my 2 year anniversary with my boyfriend in a couple weeks. Soooo I guess they were wrong after all.

As a personal preference, you'd have made my boner stiffer being fat.

That said, I am absolutely over the moon for you. You deserve happiness, Erisad. You really do.

Probably... that I´m fat and ugly

Lol, I'll never be a small girl based on my frame. I'm about a US 12/14 now. Thanks, I'm really happy. Everything isn't perfect but I'm doing well with what I have.

That I'm a freak.

They said they didn't mean it after though.

Not a lot of mean things, and, after looking at some of the others posted, some seem quite a bit more mild. Some of these included:

Me being "big," meant in the fat way. (Sure, I'm a big guy, but I'm not fat.)

Being crazy for my (clearly non-crazy) views on politics, economics, philosophy, belief in God, education, etc.

Once after making a humorous observation, a girl said with the utmost seriousness "That's not funny, and you're not funny at all." (Oddly, my guy friends find my dark, Pythonesque/British, and dry sense of humour great.)

Not having the "right" aims in life. I live my life as I see fit and love: endless intellectual discovery and thinking. Though I realize that finding a job and making money are important, they aren't my life's purpose.

I take my special interests too seriously.

Being boring and monotone.

Having "weird" taste in music and films.

Reading too many books.

Of these, I think the things that have stung the most have been mean things related to my stuttering. For example, I need to get it "cured," I'll never get a girlfriend due to it, no girl would take any interest in me, die a virgin, etc.

"You're going to go genetically extinct."

I gave her credit for such an intellectual evisceration.

The usual, jerk, monster, crazy, no personality, and all that, don't and doesn't bother me; I know I'm that.

But the, "you don't talk!" Annoys me.

I talk. I just don't talk for the purpose of making noise.

No you aren't.

"I understand that you have Asperger's and you don't get stuff that people are supposed to do. So this relationship's just been kind of masochistic for me. I'm not doing that to myself anymore."
-First and only girlfriend, before breaking up with me

At least you aren't virgin anymore, are you?

A monster lets someone suffer knowingly for selfish reasons.

I may not always be one, but I've been one all the same.

That's just awful. Whatever happened to the famous NT tact?

NTs seem to be utterly and helplessly unable to cope without being able to say things under a layer or three of subtly, so that if you don't "get things" that people are "supposed to get", they simply can't deal with it.