Crazy Night in Oompa Loompa land. What to do next?

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26 Oct 2013, 4:36 pm

No! Nothing would be posted that quickly. You want to leave it a bit, so the other person is thinking of you more and more...invests more emotion...that twists the knife a bit.

The outcome will be JM telling us where to go!

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26 Oct 2013, 4:38 pm

You'd think I'd be used to that by now, not just on here either. :lol:

Anyway, it's you who starts it!

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26 Oct 2013, 4:43 pm

JanuaryMan wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Was there any kiss, flirting? What do you mean by business? one time shag? What happened at her place?

You're not very fat btw, just slightly, chubby, but fat enough to be ruled ou of okc, but in real life there a millions of guys with your physique in relationships.

Okay, I agree with that much. I have disabled my account for now anyway. I'll consider rejoining when my gym exercise exceeds my junkfood intake and I have some better photos.
I'll make do with the attention I get for now and bother acting on it for once. I think not acting on it is a major problem I have and a fear of not the rejection itself but being treated like an oddball or differently afterwards is holding me back.

As for your other questions Boo, I don't want to answer that here. They might be reading this!

Then how are we suppoed to help you?

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26 Oct 2013, 4:46 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Then how are we suppoed to help you?

I don't see how telling you who it is helps? If you need a hint though in order to help me, it was the best night sleep I had in ages.

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26 Oct 2013, 4:47 pm

Don't you think we've helped him enough already? All of JM's future dating success is down to us. He knows it. :lol:

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26 Oct 2013, 4:49 pm

JanuaryMan wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Then how are we suppoed to help you?

I don't see how telling you who it is helps? If you need a hint though in order to help me, it was the best night sleep I had in ages.

She rubbed vicks on your chest? Awww.

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26 Oct 2013, 4:49 pm

Well, dude, if she is likely to be reading this, then you shouldn't have posted anything at all. You really ought to know better than that. Just be brave and ask her if she is interested in being more than friends and deal with that and if yes - w00t! and if no, too bad, move on.

Jeezus why is this so complicated!

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26 Oct 2013, 4:56 pm

octobertiger wrote:

JanuaryMan wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Then how are we suppoed to help you?

I don't see how telling you who it is helps? If you need a hint though in order to help me, it was the best night sleep I had in ages.

She rubbed vicks on your chest? Awww.

Vick does do the trick if you want a good nights sleep.

I hope the woman in question isn't called Vick. :lol:

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26 Oct 2013, 4:57 pm

I agree with leafplant, you didn't even need a thread - what happened is a sure sign of interest and attraction - what more signs you need to go on?

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26 Oct 2013, 4:59 pm

Rub it somewhere else, it's not much fun.

Ohhh no! Well, at least I put 'chest', could have been worse.

Anyway, I'm sorry but...first night with someone new, you're not supposed to get any sleep!

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26 Oct 2013, 5:00 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

I agree with leafplant, you didn't even need a thread - what happened is a sure sign of interest and attraction - what more signs you need to go on?

Leave him alone Boo - if you got laid, there'd be a bloody marching band and a ticker taper parade