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Vomelche
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25 Jun 2014, 5:04 pm

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Should be renamed "Love and Hating."


I wanted to throw that one in for a while now :P. Maybe we could temporarily rename it to that as a practical joke?

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Probably someone understanding, at this point in time.



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25 Jun 2014, 11:16 pm

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I'm attracted to them.
Loves me.
Thats it? What about must love cats or has cats?


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26 Jun 2014, 12:16 am

Erm...

Supermodel looks. Genius IQ.

Must have own spaceship, or have the money to build one from scratch. It would also be helpful if this ideal woman shat marijuana.


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26 Jun 2014, 12:56 am

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Mine's a redhead with Celtic ancestry, a bit older then me, a marijuana afficiano, but doesn't drink much, he's educated and likes the classics, has a good sense of humour and a friendly smile.

Are you out there somewhere? :D


So who is your "ideal."
Im not redheaded but I do have Irish ancestry I am 31 I like marijuana but I do drink though I have somewhat of a sense of humor and a friendly smile and it depends on the classics I like so I probably don't fit 100% in your criteria!


I think we'd have tons of fun together, Otaku!
....um there might be a lot of intimate moments and cuddling involved! :oops: :oops: :oops: I also give off a lot of body heat so am able to keep you warm in the cold Canadian weather! :oops: :oops: :oops:


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26 Jun 2014, 6:17 am

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....um there might be a lot of intimate moments and cuddling involved! :oops: :oops: :oops: I also give off a lot of body heat so am able to keep you warm in the cold Canadian weather! :oops: :oops: :oops:

Awesome on both counts :D



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26 Jun 2014, 11:38 am

That's an easy one. It is a woman that I can play the entire courtship ritual with naturally. Basically, that's my only requirement.



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26 Jun 2014, 1:57 pm

Smart, goal-oriented, has a sense of humor (or at least laughs at my jokes), has hobbies, likes to keep fit and encourages me to do so, supportive, kind, a great cook, not a picky eater, adventurous, extroverted (or at least is willing to help me get out of my shell), interested in traveling and other cultures, doesn't necessarily hate math... oh, and I'm a sucker for women with brown hair. Like, in a big way. Also, not religious.


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26 Jun 2014, 4:29 pm

I only said he'd be a cop, love food, etc because that's what I have and I love him. Sorry if I upset anyone.


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27 Jun 2014, 1:13 am

My ideal would be someone who gives me the benefit of the doubt. Lots of things about me need a little patience. But my ideal person would trust that I meant well, even when I say stupid things.

There is a song by Pink called "Mean" and it says how at first her guy thinks quirky is cute and makes him laugh, but then he gets over it and shakes his head. That's one difficult thing being aspie. I need someone who thinks quirky is okay long term.

My ideal guy also would be able to receive love without losing his perspective.


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27 Jun 2014, 8:43 am

Idk a guy who is entertaining?



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27 Jun 2014, 3:53 pm

playful and kind.



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27 Jun 2014, 3:57 pm

I want a woman who tolerates my Wolfie Tendencies.



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27 Jun 2014, 4:35 pm

Long blond hair, tall and skinny with blue eyes and fine cheekbones, about 49 years old; autistic like me; likes cats and dogs, Star Trek, rocketry, art, '80s punk music; superior intellect, believes in God, gentle, patient, loyal, lonesome.... :oops:


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27 Jun 2014, 5:46 pm

he would be well-read (hopefully even more so than myself so he can recommend books), and we would like enough of the same music that we could trade mp3 players (i like lots of different genres/artists, so that shouldn't be too difficult). uncompromisingly ethical, yet somewhat spontaneous and with a healthy love of adventure. must be kindly-natured (don't care for the mean/cold ones), and must have a wicked sense of humour. also must have little capacity for deception of others and deception of self, and little use for competition because he is able to derive more from co-operation. must possess a capacity for optimism, and a desire to always be learning, stretching, growing. he would challenge me, and push me to be a better person than i am, while loving the flawed imperfect person i am today; and i would do the same for him.

something like that.



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28 Jun 2014, 8:03 pm

Ideally i would like a companion that is old fashion and highly intelligent, strong willed enough to easily calm my inner beast but not oppress it with the ability to see past my communication problems and understand the inner workings of my mind. A passionate woman that can pick the good things from both the old world and the new. While i do love adventure and exploration i prefer indoors most of the time. I am a highly physical being and physically talented with a competitive nature but i am in no way a poor sport. I love anime so naturally i am highly attracted to small and cute women but not necessarily asian women i prefer fair skin and small stature but natural redheads are very attractive to me so that said i hope to find a woman that is small and cute on the outside but with a wild spirit and a powerful imagination



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28 Jun 2014, 10:26 pm

laid back
doesnt care what others think
loves stargazing
happy and supportive
not argumentative
can chat about philosophy with
not promiscuous
likes science
doesnt do hard drugs
smart... thats a big one
maybe buddhist idk
agnostic or atheist preferred
aspergers?

basically what i am so we get along