Andreger wrote:
Last time I devided to get a girlfriend and started datings, first time in last five years. I used social network like facebook, sought possibly single girls in groups about my interests (mainly military history and politics) and wrote them something like "Hi, I found you in *group_name*, you love history?"
It was a surprise but it worked, alomst one of three answered and after few days I had 2-3 girls who accepted my invitation to go out in the city. I did it several times so overall I had near dozen of datings. But! It seems I failed them all and I don't know why.
On each dating I was nice, we've been near historical sights of our city, went to cafes and so on. They all looked like happy of spending time with me, we found some common interess (as it seemed to me).
But now half of girls just ignores my messgaes, others occasionally answer something and with two there is nice communication now but they rejects all attempts to meet again with different reason every time.
What should I do?
Find new ones? I'm sure it would be the same as first dozen. Try to ask any of these two for dating? But if they doesn't want it for two weeks why do they change their minds? Damn, it's difficult!
I would guess that they secretly found a dealbreaker out about you.
02 Nov 2014, 6:45 pm
