AspieOtaku wrote:
andrethemoogle wrote:
AspieOtaku wrote:
andrethemoogle wrote:
AspieOtaku wrote:
Dont say the thats what she said jokes around women in a work place or show affectionate interest and you'll be fine. If shes got a cocky smile maybe shes baiting you into flirting simply so she can get you fired or sue you for sexual harassment.
Do you actually have any proof of this? Or is it another one of your posts with baseless evidence?
I doubt most of us would know what a "cocky smile" is, as I would imagine there are a lot of people like myself who cannot read expressions at all.
I am not the OP so no, any flirting at any work place is grounds for sexual harassment and if it is any form of flirting from a female worker she is baiting the male coworker to flirt back and that is when she will get him fired for sexual harrassment.
I was asking YOU for proof, which you haven't provided, even for your latest statement. Why are you making it like this happens all the time? I've barely heard of someone "baiting" another into flirting just to get them in trouble. Let me ask you this, would it be the same if a male did this to a female employee? Or is this a double standard to you?
Quit believing everything you read / see on the internet, it helps a ton.
It happens maybe not very often never seen it the other way around at all though.
I think maybe the trouble is that there is a question of how much you have actually "seen" either case, whether you have seen it at all?
That is, are you basing any of this from personal experience in the real world or academic studies or something else with some basis or is this just essentially what you have gathered about the topic from other parties?
My knowledge on the issue- specifically work place harassment- comes from being in uncomfortable situations at work and needing to know what my options are but also from being a manager and having to assess a situation from that point of view. It can happen both ways, and does. No, not as often but it does.
Also- you don't just get booted out of the door because you give someone a compliment.That is not harassment. Harassment is intended to harass and in the workplace is often a constant, not a misunderstanding. So when a situation is looked at that part is addressed and any decent company is going to assess either point of view. [though, not all companies are decent]
As far as harassment, down the whole spectrum of it, people "baiting" others into trouble is actually not nearly as common as is often said. For some reason this ridiculous idea is perpetuated. There are numerous studies which come at it from every angle, and they all come to the same conclusion: The actual incidents vastly outweigh the disingenuine claims.
So, I mean. I kind of have an issue with you stating some things that seem to come from an ignorant point of view myself. It can actually be quite harmful.
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