Do men only care about "bimbos"?

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23 Nov 2014, 5:50 pm

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This is another thing I'm concerned about, and I'm sorry for using the word "bimbo". Why do I get the feeling that boys and men only care about women who look like gorgeous models (especially with pretty big bust sizes) and wanting to only have sexual relationships with them? Why can't guys go after nice-looking, well-behaved girls with a quirky/nerdy side or personality? I find this totally barbaric.

I'm sorry. I'm concerned how people date like this nowadays, with all the ridiculous media and how men teach younger generation boys how to hook up with girls like that. Forgive me if I may be wrong, but, again, I'm just really concerned about it.

PS- And they've been doing this since the early civilizations of mankind!

A lot of guys like "cute and quirky" girls. Men like women with high estrogen and high progestrone levels; these are the most fertile and most genetically gifted women, and thus, the most attractive. Bimbos tend to be more active and make the first move, instead of doing absolutely nothing and waiting for prince charming to pick them up on his white horse.

I feel like such a freak for being pretty and feminine, even cute and quirky, and still no boyfriend. A guy was waiting at the bus stop for his girlfriend today. When he saw her they held each other tightly for seconds and kissed, passionately buy not vulgar. He caressed her. Like they hadn't seen each other in weeks. It was true love.
This is really all I want. It makes me sad to think about this.

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23 Nov 2014, 6:16 pm

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The only men interested in women they perceive to be bimbos are abusers and users.

Sounds like one should actively avoid those women in case doing otherwise would make one an abuser :roll:

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23 Nov 2014, 7:39 pm

Cafeaulait wrote:

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If it makes you feel any better, more women should be like you.

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23 Nov 2014, 7:49 pm

Kurgan wrote:

If it makes you feel any better, more women should be like you.

Well... if it were true then I wouldn't have trouble finding love. It does make me feel a bit better, though. Thanks.

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23 Nov 2014, 8:59 pm

goldfish21 wrote:

UncannyDanny wrote:

PS- And they've been doing this since the early civilizations of mankind!

You're right about this part & it will never change.

What you're not seeing is that it's not ONLY bimbos that EVERY guy cares about. Guys may be outwardly attracted to "hot" girls and so you'll notice their reactions to seeing one, but guys aren't ONLY seeking to have relationships or sex with "bimbos." If that were true no girl that didn't fit that profile would ever be in a relationship with a guy ever - and that simply isn't true. There are plenty of smart good looking (and even dumb ugly) girls in relationships.

I'm gay, and while I'm attracted to the physical types I'm attracted to, I couldn't possibly see myself dating a guy that just looked good and had nothing between his ears. I bet that's the same for MANY guys. It's about intellectual and personality attraction, too, not just looks. Good looks don't hurt any, though!

well there's not enough hot models to go around for all the guys, so non hot guys have to settle.
that is if the sole focus was for looks alone. more to relationships then that but it can explain your whole less hot women still get dates.

dumb ugly girls just have to find a dumber and uglier man lol
though reality is that most women aren't ugly and someone out there will find them pretty.

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23 Nov 2014, 10:53 pm

In my opinion, only those who see women as objects place their looks ahead of everything else. I definitely prefer women with curves, and wouldn't necessarily see flat-chested women as a priority...but I don't hate them, either. I also think there is such a thing as "too much" in that area, and I often feel sorry for women who look like they're in pain.

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24 Nov 2014, 12:26 am

Looks matter little to me & I never had much money & don't care to so I'm NOT into materialism but I do like stupidity because I find it funny & I S#CKED with school & don't feel smart myself. I find bimbos funny but their shallow superficialness really turns me off.

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25 Nov 2014, 6:41 am

UncannyDanny wrote:

It gets better after about age 25 or so, but for the most part, a lot of guys value their own sexuality over feelings.

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01 Dec 2014, 1:35 am

UncannyDanny wrote:

If getting your genes into the next generation is the primordial imperative we all suffer from, then being a bimbo is about as sure a way of doing that as any! Breeding with one is a male's quickest way to achieve this too. Not necessarily produce successful offspring but might help to make them good looking! And that might help their longterm success!

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01 Dec 2014, 2:24 am

I don't think so.

But there is a type of man who will treat a bimbo with more politeness. Same with girls and "hot" guys though.

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01 Dec 2014, 5:15 pm

I don't think all men want 'bimbo,' but many men do not want to date women who are more booksmart. Some of us are little professors, and that won't bode well with some nt men. Some of us don't conform to gender roles as well as bimbos, so in that way we would be at a disadvantage.

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01 Dec 2014, 5:53 pm

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And another thing is that you can't always associate beautiful girls with being "bimbo" or unintelligent. I'm sure there are plenty of attractive, intelligent girls with a good personality.

This.

I am pretty and quirky. I just want someone who loves me and appreciates my weirdness.

Same here. Its not really that I'm quirky but its that I am very quiet, especially in school, and thats probably a turn-off. And some people associate that with being unintelligent too.

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03 Dec 2014, 10:27 am

Here:

This song pretty much sums up my opinion on "bimbos" and "bad boys"

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03 Dec 2014, 4:05 pm

Anna_K wrote:

Cafeaulait wrote:

Anna_K wrote:

And another thing is that you can't always associate beautiful girls with being "bimbo" or unintelligent. I'm sure there are plenty of attractive, intelligent girls with a good personality.

This.

I am pretty and quirky. I just want someone who loves me and appreciates my weirdness.

Same here. Its not really that I'm quirky but its that I am very quiet, especially in school, and thats probably a turn-off. And some people associate that with being unintelligent too.

Ia.
Bimbos are stereotypically more social and bubbly. People tend to like more outgoing people better.

Guys say im mysterious, which is cute at first.Then its on to another more outgoing girl.

Also, bimbos have more of a need for a man. Some guys really like that!

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03 Dec 2014, 4:15 pm

Of course not. Many guys would not prefer that type of personality in a partner. Don't be misled by what gets more publicity.

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