torn between two conflicting desires

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tomato
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24 Dec 2014, 9:33 am

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If I do go on a date again I'll definitely not pay for the woman.

Considering how extremely easy it is for a semi-decent looking woman to get loads of men to take her on a date, and the fact that it's free to register on online dating services, most women could easily eat out with a new man every day in the case of unemployment. And in such a situation the woman wouldn't even benefit from ever having anything more than a first date. This is probably quite common. I have seen lots of women on those dating sites that are on there for years, so they haven't gotten a steady relationship with anyone, and I seriously doubt they just browse and browse. Why pay for a bunch of freeloaders only to be rejected the next day, no thank you.



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24 Dec 2014, 12:51 pm

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At this point I see right through the behavior of women, read them to an extent they can't read themselves. They are so simple-minded, and they are attracted to simple-minded conformist men. Which is good for men like me who have greater desires, because they'll weed themselves out until hopefully our desire for them have vanished altogether. Oh boy will that be a happy day.


So you are judging all women based on the experiences of a date with one woman?

I'll let you guess who is simple-minded and conformist here. You exhibit the same erroneous stereotypical thinking that permeates these forums on a regular basis. Looks like you will fit in here comfortably with the other scorned, bitter men.

Unless of course you feel it's worth it to challenge yourself, grow, and learn instead of giving up, stagnating, and wallowing in negativity.



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24 Dec 2014, 3:12 pm

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So you are judging all women based on the experiences of a date with one woman?

I'll let you guess who is simple-minded and conformist here. You exhibit the same erroneous stereotypical thinking that permeates these forums on a regular basis. Looks like you will fit in here comfortably with the other scorned, bitter men.

Unless of course you feel it's worth it to challenge yourself, grow, and learn instead of giving up, stagnating, and wallowing in negativity.
Let me guess, you are a woman.

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So you are judging all women based on the experiences of a date with one woman?
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Unless of course you feel it's worth it to challenge yourself, grow, and learn instead of giving up, stagnating, and wallowing in negativity.
I am very interested in growing and women are no part of that whatsoever, on the contrary, the absence of women is part of that. I don't shape my mind to suit the tastes of women, and this is something only men of spirit and substance resonate with because the less you have of that the more you suit the tastes of women.