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izzeme
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08 May 2015, 7:42 am

mpe wrote:
izzeme wrote:
Plain, simple and direct is the best approach to let an aspie understand something: be blunt.

don't ask him to marry you, tell him you are going to marry him unless he objects.

Which might attract an equally blunt response. In my case a highly negative one.

Well, at least you know... dating and regular relationships (including friendships, really) can do with less subtility; a bit of blunt honesty can solve a lot of problems. it might break a hart or two, but it's better in the long run