How to ask an Aspie to marry me?
mpe wrote:
izzeme wrote:
Plain, simple and direct is the best approach to let an aspie understand something: be blunt.
don't ask him to marry you, tell him you are going to marry him unless he objects.
don't ask him to marry you, tell him you are going to marry him unless he objects.
Which might attract an equally blunt response. In my case a highly negative one.
Well, at least you know... dating and regular relationships (including friendships, really) can do with less subtility; a bit of blunt honesty can solve a lot of problems. it might break a hart or two, but it's better in the long run
