I cant get a real relationship...

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cberg
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04 Jun 2015, 9:50 pm

Maybe we could discuss the OP instead of being self-serving. The philosophy of the previous several posts applied better to jetliner oxygen masks than your love lives. Don't tell us about your phone sex. tl;dr 8O :| :?


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05 Jun 2015, 1:37 am

MaxE wrote:
The only point I would add is that, even if a guy genuinely wants a GF, he still wants to have sex with her,


Not necessarily, unless he wants children.

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by which I mean that just because someone is looking for sex doesn't make him a jerk. Some women are also looking for sex, trust me I've seen it.


I think it does make him a jerk. :wink:



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05 Jun 2015, 5:02 am

^ What's so easy about escaping all interests common among all multicellular organisms? Sure, one can dissociate from everything their body tells them to do, I know, I've been there, but how healthy can that really be? I mean, scores of people like sexy anime, I'm one of them for that matter, just look up my user avatar. Everyone can draw their own lines in the sand though, I for example see little reason to project fictions on reality, which seems to me like a common element of a lot of the troubles we're discussing here.

It's not so terribly difficult to have a love life while forgoing a sex life. I for one see that as the simplest way to set about solving these riddles.

/essay: Good luck folks!


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06 Jul 2015, 4:51 am

Have you tried online dating? There are a lot of dating websites nowadays indeed. But a lot of fraud ones too. You should beware of them. My best friend used https://kovla.com website for such a purpose. He met a really nice girl there, and they are really happy together. Good luck you too ;)



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07 Jul 2015, 6:26 am

Guys, she got a boyfriend.

Stop being so concerned.