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Lukeda420
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08 Oct 2015, 6:13 pm

Drawyer, you're awesome! Thanks!

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08 Oct 2015, 6:14 pm

CivilSam wrote:

Am I too late to be assessed?

Nope. If you don't mind I'll give my assess on your Sunday.
So PM me. I'll be your assessor!!

Lukeda420 wrote:

Drawyer, you're awesome! Thanks!

It was my pleasure to help you.=)

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08 Oct 2015, 7:40 pm

Drawyer wrote:

Hmm..No women have volunteered to be an assessor yet I think I'll volunteer again.. :cherry:

Because mainly I actually want to help you guys to meet your girls..besides opportunity of peeking your pictures..oopsy..

I'll be the assessor for The Grand Inquisitor, Feyokien
Spiderpig, sly279 -- even though you didn't ask for..I want to help you so..if you don't mind I'll assess for you too.

I bet you guys are not that bad..

I'm your good friend!! :alien:

I dont know I feel I've been told how ugly and worthless I am enough :/

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08 Oct 2015, 7:41 pm

nurseangela wrote:

Any guy wanting NT female feedback just PM and I will tell you the honest truth and I'll be nice about it.

Pretty sure what the feedback would be

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09 Oct 2015, 4:13 am

Both of my assessors told me I am not aiming higher looks-wise/jobs-wise - except one maybe;.

I have been told by one of them that my 5'3 height is a major dating disadvantage, a real biggie. Going for same height isn't enough because there would be heels in the equation. Faith incompatibility (I am atheist) is another big deal, even tho most of them knew it beforehand - so it is not for all cases.

One of them told me that I look way better without glasses, which is something I hear A LOT by girls- I've tried different frames including the bonish stylish ones and it's all the same. :-/ I've been recommended to become little more fit too.

Contacts are not comfortable to me for all-time and everyday usage, and the reason I am hesitated to go for eyesight correction such as Lasik is the stories, most of them are success but I personally know people who got permanent complications; one of them is my uncle who did it in australia, and he get a blurry eye, another is a coworker who's now unable to drive at night to sensitivity to lamps' lights (he see a huge bright halos around light sources, as if it's sun) and I know two others, my brother has two friends who got problems too. It can't be a coincidence, so I guess the claim of the low risk rate in stats used to mark these operations isn't that true. So probably, relying more on contacts is the best option for now.

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09 Oct 2015, 6:54 am

Drawyer wrote:

Hmm..No women have volunteered to be an assessor yet I think I'll volunteer again.. :cherry:

Okay, just let me know when you're ready

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09 Oct 2015, 7:23 am

So... we just post our pics here, or we partner with an assessor and post pics via pm?

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09 Oct 2015, 7:33 am

Howdy. I just woke up for a few minutes, but yes, PM unless you want input from everyone. I helped someone with their bio on one of the dating sites too - if you have one of those.

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09 Oct 2015, 7:37 am

nurseangela wrote:

Howdy. I just woke up for a few minutes, but yes, PM unless you want input from everyone. I helped someone with their bio on one of the dating sites too - if you have one of those.

You were a huge help, ty!

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09 Oct 2015, 7:41 am

Get a haircut, shave, aim lower

thanks for the advice :roll:

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09 Oct 2015, 7:42 am

nurseangela wrote:

Howdy. I just woke up for a few minutes, but yes, PM unless you want input from everyone. I helped someone with their bio on one of the dating sites too - if you have one of those.

I have an OkCupid that is basically garbage and four years old... not even relevant anymore since I moved. so aside form the pic, what other criteria would I need to fill out to be evaluated?

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09 Oct 2015, 5:06 pm

The Grand Inquisitor wrote:

Okay, just let me know when you're ready

Based on time set of SouthKorea, I have to work 9:00am-3:30pm today and after that I am free. or tomorrow I have to work 9:00am-11:50am..so after that I am free and the day after tomorrow I am day-off. so if you PM me, I'll check whenever I have proper free time to read and I'll respond you.=)

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10 Oct 2015, 2:39 am

It was for The Grand Inquisitor to show him beard and frames
but this frames will work for The Face of Boo as well so I'll put here.

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10 Oct 2015, 3:41 am

As for long hair men(such as Lukeda420), I recommend not to seek dandy style,
but try more natural casual style with some hats, mufflers in this autumn.
I've tried to roughly collect some and edited into one picture.

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10 Oct 2015, 5:27 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

When you go to the job market to find a job, it is important to know your value in there, and sometimes the only way to know for sure is to refer to a third party (preferably an employer) opinion to tell you whether you are aiming too high or too low.

Finding a partner isn't a market, and never was. At least not for real NDs. :wink:

But if somebody want to assess my photo-less OkC account, sure. :mrgreen:

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10 Oct 2015, 9:42 am

Drawyer wrote:

It was for The Grand Inquisitor to show him beard and frames
but this frames will work for The Face of Boo as well so I'll put here.

Wanna me have a beard like guy 1? :mrgreen:

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