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15 Oct 2015, 4:42 pm

darkphantomx1 wrote:
Dating is hard for any young adult male who isn't super hot. Being autistic makes it even harder.

If you're autistic, don't try to be dating the super hot preppy chicks. Try to go for women who are different, just like you.


yeah... I don't like preps. problem is, nerd girls are hard to find unless you are willing to blow your money on a convention, but the ones you find regularly, tend to be in healthy relationships with other nerd guys.



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15 Oct 2015, 4:46 pm

SwissPagan wrote:
darkphantomx1 wrote:
Dating is hard for any young adult male who isn't super hot. Being autistic makes it even harder.

If you're autistic, don't try to be dating the super hot preppy chicks. Try to go for women who are different, just like you.


yeah... I don't like preps. problem is, nerd girls are hard to find unless you are willing to blow your money on a convention, but the ones you find regularly, tend to be in healthy relationships with other nerd guys.



I got lucky. I found this girl on Tinder who's into video games and we were talking about that. Now I have her number and we been texting today. Hopefully it ends up with a date.

It would be the first date iv'e ever been on.



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15 Oct 2015, 6:47 pm

darkphantomx1 wrote:
SwissPagan wrote:
darkphantomx1 wrote:
Dating is hard for any young adult male who isn't super hot. Being autistic makes it even harder.

If you're autistic, don't try to be dating the super hot preppy chicks. Try to go for women who are different, just like you.


yeah... I don't like preps. problem is, nerd girls are hard to find unless you are willing to blow your money on a convention, but the ones you find regularly, tend to be in healthy relationships with other nerd guys.



I got lucky. I found this girl on Tinder who's into video games and we were talking about that. Now I have her number and we been texting today. Hopefully it ends up with a date.

It would be the first date iv'e ever been on.


Congrats! That's awesome! I hope it happens!! !!



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21 Oct 2015, 12:48 am

darkphantomx1 wrote:
SwissPagan wrote:
darkphantomx1 wrote:
Dating is hard for any young adult male who isn't super hot. Being autistic makes it even harder.

If you're autistic, don't try to be dating the super hot preppy chicks. Try to go for women who are different, just like you.


yeah... I don't like preps. problem is, nerd girls are hard to find unless you are willing to blow your money on a convention, but the ones you find regularly, tend to be in healthy relationships with other nerd guys.



I got lucky. I found this girl on Tinder who's into video games and we were talking about that. Now I have her number and we been texting today. Hopefully it ends up with a date.

It would be the first date iv'e ever been on.


been using Tinder for a few months now, no response yet



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21 Oct 2015, 12:56 am

No, certain individuals that don't have physically appealing traits or don't conform to the dominant culture of the time are at a disadvantage. Facial features are not as far as I know influenced by AS, although some people out there with improper inductive "proof" will tell you otherwise.