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11 Apr 2007, 4:34 am

Aspie_for_the_Lord wrote:
im vert Meticulus about my appearance.... it has been commented how clean i actually am... lol


To be honest, you do look clean.

I am not sure what it is in total that attracts a partner, I have never had any trouble at all in attracting people, I have trouble with actually wanting to date; I find romance boring. Opposite problem really.



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11 Apr 2007, 9:51 am

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Move to the US. Women here think any guy with a British accent is sexy.


HAHAHA!! ! :lol: It's funny, but seems to be true!


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11 Apr 2007, 10:02 am

My advice -- something that's helped me during long periods of unwanted singlehood -- is, do the math. You're 24, and you haven't found your true love. How very normal that is! Sure, some people find theirs younger (and in most of those cases, the jury's still out on whether it will last). But MOST people find their true loves significantly later in life.

I've just found that, when I actually do the math and run the stats, my situation suddenly looks a lot more average, and a lot more hopeful. By the way, I'm a Christian too, and I understand how hard it is to hold out for a good woman. But you'll be very glad you did in the end!


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11 Apr 2007, 10:27 am

Ragtime wrote:
My advice -- something that's helped me during long periods of unwanted singlehood -- is, do the math. You're 24, and you haven't found your true love. How very normal that is! Sure, some people find theirs younger (and in most of those cases, the jury's still out on whether it will last). But MOST people find their true loves significantly later in life.

I've just found that, when I actually do the math and run the stats, my situation suddenly looks a lot more average, and a lot more hopeful. By the way, I'm a Christian too, and I understand how hard it is to hold out for a good woman. But you'll be very glad you did in the end!


thanks for the support

i guess there arnt many good women around here where i live... being a christian limits you somewhat, lol


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11 Apr 2007, 3:06 pm

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Never trust a person who says "Trust me" *lame attempt at making you feel better*



Aww...that's cute...:)


I've often been told I'm cute :D


Ive often been told im Ugly as Sin... lol


Awww, that's not very nice now, is it?

Apparently I'm the only one who finds my man attractive (last night he got bumped up to an impossible Drool Factor 10.5, originally being a Drool Factor 10 (1 being butt ugly, 10 being perfect, 11 a God)). I don't see how. He dances with a lot of girls, and I can't believe not one of them finds him hot.

Kinda weird huh? There will be a girl one day who will rate you a Drool Factor 10 and won't hear anything else (unless someone calls you a Drool Factor 11, then she might agree!).



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11 Apr 2007, 3:10 pm

Kaleido, I don't suppose you're Christian... :wink:

AFTL: Can you do a semester abroad? My sister did that and it changed her life.



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11 Apr 2007, 3:23 pm

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Kaleido, I don't suppose you're Christian... :wink: .


No, I have been a Catholic, then a Muslim and now I am not sure really 8O



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11 Apr 2007, 3:28 pm

Oh, you don't get why I asked you that? It's because you and AFTL are both in England, and single, and...



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11 Apr 2007, 3:37 pm

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Oh, you don't get why I asked you that? It's because you and AFTL are both in England, and single, and...

No, I didn't see that.

Well, handsome as he is and I do love dark hair and eyes, I am not thinking of dating at the moment. Lost a loved one in recent years and still not ready to move forward yet.



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12 Apr 2007, 2:50 am

Love is not everything in life!! ! :?

if you didn't find yet it's ok!
if you ll find it one day this will be good !
if you won't never find it too it's alright too ! !

Don't make love the center of your life! Live your life , focus on yourself , you still have your parents , your job ,your home , your pet , your pc and many things to take care of .

No woman deserves this dramatic feeling on her :? and all this s**t about self-pity and this down feeling :? ....believe me , no one .



PS : I felt like you months ago lol



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12 Apr 2007, 3:54 am

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AFTL: Can you do a semester abroad? My sister did that and it changed her life.


im afraid not, i have commitments that mean im stuck here in the UK... but there will be the occasional european Archeological and tourism training field trip


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12 Apr 2007, 2:34 pm

AFtL: You look like the dude who plays spiderman/Peter Parker. I'm surprised that you've been called ugly as sin. Heck. I'm no prince charming, but I have my personality flair and my niceness.


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12 Apr 2007, 3:35 pm

i just saw taxi driver again the other night...

if your mole were a smidge higher... you'd be dead on DeNiro

i don't think that's ulgy by a long shot


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12 Apr 2007, 3:47 pm

a number of people have accused me of being a dead ringer of De niro... but the guy who plays spiderman/Peter Parker is a new one.....


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12 Apr 2007, 3:52 pm

I agree with LePetitPrince(and not just because of his avatar) and say no girl is worth depression :? Your 24 and many guys don't meet their mate until 30's or 40's. :?


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12 Apr 2007, 3:56 pm

AFTL,
I'm sorry to hear about this.
Don't go to them, allow them to come to you.

-Eric

PS: Seriously, you look like a composition of De Niro and Tobey Maguire.
Can you do a De Niro impersonation for the ladies?